I'm tired I can't keep up

@raydene (9871)
United States
February 25, 2010 8:30am CST
I come to mylot with things to say so I start discussions then I try to answer a few of your comments to my other discussion then I try to respond to friends discussions but I fall short Seems like I never catch up. I hope my friends don't think I don't still love them. I just can not seem to do it all. How do you arrange your time here? xoxoxoxo
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14 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
25 Feb 10
Hi, raydene. I just come here in the mornings and post as much as I feel like posting. I understand how you feel. I know that I can't always respond to my friend's discussions as well. I know that I try to do my best to answer any discussions that are interesting to me. I have so many friends on my friends list. I can't possibly respond to everyone of them. I am sure that your friends know that you love them. And for the ones that don't, it is still not your problem. You have done the very best that you can. And now it is up to you to continue to post as if you have been here all day. We all can only do our best while we are here. I know that I can. So, stop beating yourself up. You are only one person and you can only do the job of one person. Cheer up. You are doing a great job by posting.
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
27 Feb 10
It would take a lot of time to answer all the replys to a discussion you have started. I have never started one, but by the time I reply to some discussions in my digest and discussions my friends have started, I am tired of typing and my back starts to hurt. I try to respond to all my friends discussions, except there is one from India and he starts discussions about sports that I know nothing about. I don't respond to them. I have heard that you really don't have to and I guess a lot of people don't, but I feel like I should. If you started a discussion I guess you should get over feeling that you have to respond to everything! You can only do so much so don't worry about it. If you don't respond to this I'll understand!
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
it is part of my daily routine to be here in Mylot and do the 25 responding discussion everyday. That is my quota.If I am very busy that day, I know I can only get a glimpse here in Mylot and will not get a chance to respond on discussion, but i make sure I do save your interesting discussion to my email folder and be back when I have all the time in the world. i make sure I have the 25 responding discussion everyday, so that my ratings and earning are continuous. Raydene, that is okay if you can't catch up here. The important is you drop by if you have time, that is all we ask of you.
@littleowl (7157)
26 Feb 10
Hi Raydene, No worries about keeping up with your answers to your discussions you do so many! Guess you will get round to answering them sometime..lol as for me I find there are loads of things to start discussions but never know how to put them up or forget about them-guess it would be a good idea to write them down!- so instead I tend to respond to discussions. So that is the way I manage my time here-lol hugs LoLo
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
26 Feb 10
I don't start discussions. That's one way of reducing the workload. Decide which you like to do better and focus on it.
• China
26 Feb 10
I have just come to mylot,for all of us I was a novice,and my english is poll,my main purpose here is to making friends and learning english,so I am willing to spend some time to stay here to see what you talk and learn,thank you.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 10
I just do what I can here every Day Sweet I do more responding then Discussions actually so that way I get through ok But I always responded more then starting Discussion lol as I never have much to say really Just take it steady and just do what you can xxxxx
@GardenGerty (157016)
• United States
25 Feb 10
I do not keep up. I do not start very many discussions. There are many of my friends discussions I do not respond to. I am needing to do some other things besides MyLot online. I have a page full of discussions to get resolved at some point. I just enjoy what I do get to do here. It is not a job, it is a diversion, more or less. I have always said that there is life beyond MyLot, and I have to let myself take care of all of life, not just MyLot.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
25 Feb 10
the body can only do so much. i wanted to make payout this month but ama few dollars short. i am just too busy to do everything and now i am sick and dont have the energy to do it all. hope you are doing ok.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
25 Feb 10
LOL. It seems so familiar. I try to come to mylot when I feel I am not braindead. At times, the brain juice is just too dry to act. At times, it is when I come across the first email that has an interesting discussion like this and feel I need to contribute my 1 cents worth and then I am in. My timing is all spontaneous.
@BarBaraPrz (45217)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
25 Feb 10
While I read all discussions my friends put up, I don't answer all of them, and of the ones I do contribute to, I don't always read everyone else's comments. Don't stress it.
@Trojin (187)
• United States
25 Feb 10
I wish I could sympathize with you.. My problem is I have too much time to reply to everything I want to. I have no life.. My other problem is I don't always want to reply to everything that I want to. You know.. I don't want to sit down and do it all the time. ADHD.. Really.. I'm sorry I can't offer some words of time controlling wisdom to you..
• India
25 Feb 10
you are absolutely right.but i spend a lot time here thats the difference.i love mylotting but i stopped going to other chat sites since am so interested in this getting more suggestions giving more suggestions knowing many information.i really love this.the same problem am also not in such a touch with my friends since i signed up in mylot.
@srjac0902 (1170)
• Italy
25 Feb 10
If your income grows, friends encourage you will only contribute. Yes time!!!! it is according to your commitment in the family.