falling in love with a good friend,what can i do?
February 26, 2010 6:19am CST
i have a very good friend.we have been friends for six years.he was always by my side in those years.we talked about whatever we want to talk.lately i find that he is so different for me. i think of him every night ,all the time. i realize that i must be into him. in fact,he once said he liked me,however it was three years ago and i refused him at that time.we both promised to be good friends only since then.but now... i don't think we can get a relationship,but i really can't forget it.so i decided not be in touch with him any more.can you tell me am i right? or can you tell me what to do else?
26 Feb 10
That is sad girl but if I am in your situation, even though it is difficult to do, I will confess my true feelings for him. If doing that will break everything you had before, maybe its better that way because maybe, he still loves you and maybe he could be the one person reserved for you by our God.
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26 Feb 10
Ohhhh.....it's fairly hard to respond your puzzle directly.....but I hold the view,however,maybe....you should look for a better method to solve such a problem for youself,alternatively,since you can't forget him,you maybe feel unhappy if you force your own to forget him,that's a terrible decision as for you.in fact,you not have to end up friendship for each other,I don't know whether you two together now?in my opinion,cut down the appointment or meet perhaps be a superior method to relief the missing each other,the most key point is that you want how to make yourself accept the result......that's my idea,good luck to you!
26 Feb 10
Falling in love with good friends is not so bad but is sounds different you think him as a friends but suddenly you you will give him a name thats sounds different. But please don't avoid him tell him that we just can be friends not more that that ok
28 Feb 10
I think it is not such a good way.you should tell him you love him.have a good friend is a special thing in your life.you should not let him stay away from you life.there is no way that best friend should not become a loves.take control.maybe he is a gift for you in your life.read your description let me think about myself.I have a best friend almost know each other about 6 years.I know he loved me when we know about 2 years.I have a boyfriend at that time,so we just keep feiend relationships.now he is in Italy and I am in china,but I always think of him and we still keep in touch.I don't know wheather it is love.but I hope you have a good ending with him.best wishes.