I am really MAD !!

@free_man (7337)
United States
February 26, 2010 9:20pm CST
Yesterday was my mother in laws birthday and her husband was gone all day. She didn't get anything from him. He wanted her to take him out to dinner and pay for it. But she told him no she wasn't spending money she couldn't afford to spend. Her other son came over because she wanted to see him. While he was there her husband went out and pet his dog the whole time he was there. When her son had left he came into the house and told her see the dog even comes before you! He was mad at her cause me and my husband gave her a days work for nothing and when he came home we left. Then her other son came over. And he got jealous that she has good kids that love her. He had spent the entire day with his son. Then when her other son had left he came in crying after he had talked to her like a dog and said he wanted to eat he hadn't eaten all day. I would have screamed at him and told him to go eat with the dang dog! But she told him to go eat and left the room and went to her other bedroom. If I ever see this S****head again I will tell him he is a dog. I want to scream at this thing and tell him what I think about him. But know it wil cause her to get sicker. She has been suffering with heart problems since she met him. He is jealous of her sons. She is on the edge of divorcing him and this may kick it in the bottom. What would you say if someone (her husband) talked to your mother this way? What would you do if this happened to your mother? He is upset cause she didn't put her property in his name. He wants her stuff for his children. What would you think if this happened to your mother?
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@Hatley (157944)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 10
free___man well if I were in your shoes and the bas#ard treated my mom that way I wo uld get him by the seat of his pants and the shirt collar and toss him out the door for sure. then I would call a lawyer and get divorce proceedings started for your mom as her health will only deteriorate if she does not dump the idiot. Let the fool stay with his own kids, he does not need to make your mother so miserable. get him out of her life, he does not deserve her at all.Help her to divorce him and keep your mom from having a really bad heart attack. Help her she needs your kind help. He is just a user who wants your mom's property thats all.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Hi Hatley. We told her we would help her but she said she wants to give him the time to straighten up his act. She has talked to a friend of hers at the court house and they told her she could have a divorce in 30 days when she wanted it. But she has such a loving heart she said she would give him 6 months to change. And he has done nothing but gotten worse. My husband would throw him out if she would let him. But we really can't do anything until she gives us the word. I am seriously thinking of putting his number on line and see if people will call him. Maybe some woman to call him and get mom to see this and that would do it I think if she thought he was cheating on her. I don't know but I wish this man had never met mom. She has a heart of gold and he will take everything he can.
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
Perfect suggestion Hatley! I agree with you 100% Have a great weekend.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Hi Hatley and Bamikalipal. It is what I would do if mom hadn't asked us to not do anything to him. She is worried about what will happen after it is done. Her health hasn't been that good so that is another reason we haven't already done anything to him. But mom knows that the gloves are off when it comes to telling him off. After that remark he has all the cussing coming to him and mom said she understands. I can't believe her other son was there when this man said this to her. He has a real nack for speaking what is on his mind. I just think that maybe he didn't hear it. Not normal for her other son not to speak his peace.
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Hi free_man, Chill out. Yeah, right, easy for me to say. But, if I were in your place, I'd go bonkers with raging anger. It's plain to see that the husband is taking advantage of your Mom in-law. Does he even love her or is he there because of what he can get from her? Jealous of her sons or worried that her sons would become heirs to her property? That's abominable! What kind of animal is he? Dogs have better manners. Dogs are loyal, sincere, sweet and loving. Your M'in-law should not tolerate such kind of attitude from him. Obviously, she loves him, despite. Well, love, they say is blind. But, if I were in her shoes, I'd tell him to shape up or ship out. If this happened to my mother, I'd chase the guy out of the house and tell him to go to you know where. In times like this, we turn to our Most Reliable Refuge. Faith can move mountains, you know. Meanwhile, take it easy, sooner or later, the answer to our prayers will come. Have a lovely day, free_man.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Hi Bamikalipal. Thanks it is hard not to say a word but for some reason she has given him 6 months to shape up or ship out. And when she called us yesterday and told us what he said I wanted to beat the dog poo out of him and so did my husband. And he told his mother that it was coming to a head. I want to publish his phone number all over the net and get people to calling him. I would even publish her home phone if I thought I could get people to call him and act like they was having an affair with him. So maybe she would send him away sooner. I hate this man with everything that is in me. I keep praying that something will send him away. It is just hard to see this sweet woman going through such BS. And what made it even worse is he did this on her birthday.
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Hi free_man, How could he have done what he did on her birthday! Why should she have to wait for 6 months. He has caused enough misery to last everyone a lifetime, mostly to your Mom. What I feel at this moment is really blazing anger and the urge to squeeze his windpipe, sorry to say. In my opinion, he does not deserve 6 months. He deserves NOTHING! He does not have a conscience. His attitude sucks. I'd throw him out STAT! Anyway, what goes around comes around. His day will come. Take a break from all these if you can and try to have a happy weekend, free_man.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Hi Bamikalipal. Mom is just too sweet she thinks she needs to make sure that he will have a place to live after he is out of her home. She is a wise woman she knows if she throws him out now he will be crying and trying to get on her good side and sucker her into letting him move back in. I know how you feel I want to kick him where it would hurt him and B slap him. But know if I do she is the one that will get hurt in the long run. I don't think he deserves anything either I think he needs to be put on the street with only what he came into this marriage with nothing. But mom isn't that type of person she is a kind and loving person and helps everyone. Her friends tell her the same thing we have been telling her. She feels sorry for this piece of dog doo.
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
27 Feb 10
He is the lowest of the low and I truly can't wait till this "person" is out of your mother-in-law's life for good. How anyone can be jealous of someone's children is beyond me. The gaul of him wanting her to take him out to eat and pay for it on her birthday. I can't imagine what her sons want to do to this guy. I'm not related but I want to ring his neck. I also know the way I am I would have told this guy off along time ago and I would have moved in with my mom to be there till this guy was out of the picture for good. I don't know him but from all you have said about him I don't trust him at all. What a loser!
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@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
27 Feb 10
Please if the day comes that you get to tell him off don't be alone. Have your husband or brother-in-laws with you.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Hi Lelin. When I tell him off my husband and I will be telling him at the same time. I am not worried if this man tries to hit me my husband will beat his bottom to know end. He is scared of my husband. I wouldn't depend on my brother in law for nothing he is a big sissy. He does have an answer for everything. That is why I am shocked that he didn't call us and tell us what this no good thing had said. He probably didn't really hear what he had said. If he had it would surprise me.
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 10
Hi free_man I am sorry and that is so terrible I really hope that she does leave him as it is not worth the hassle to even entertain such a Man I think I would have asked him what his Problem was and has he got no manners
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Hi Gabs. No this thing that thinks he is a man don't have any clue as how to treat a LADY. He thinks only of himself and no one else maters. He is ungreatful for all that she has done for him. When she met him he lived in a small apartment and drove a beat up motor home which was falling apart. She let him drive her brand new pickup and he has tore it up. Looks like it is way older then it really is. He has tore up a bunch of her stuff. She is really well off and don't need anything. And he takes advantage of that. He got upset cause she wouldn't leave his grown children her stuff. He isn't a man he is a stupid no good S**& head.
@Thoroughrob (11771)
• United States
27 Feb 10
You have every right to be upset. I hope this has opened her eyes to see what is going on with him. It is sad that he has treated her this way.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Hi Thoroughrob. I hate this man and want get him out of her life. He will never change. Mom has a good heart and will give and give even if it hurts. I don't know if she will ever make him leave although she has talked about getting a divorce. I don't know what else to do. But I am trying to find out if he has a yahoo profile page so I can show it to her. She would get rid of him if he did.