Bad days!!

bad days -  everything is black
@icesmile (7172)
Romania
February 27, 2010 7:03am CST
We have days when nothing is going? I had one of those days when whatever i do, everything comes out wrong. So,in the the morning i had to go to make some urgent payments, and because my car was broken, I take a mini bus to the city. That was the first mistake. In the mini bus, I realized that I forgot my account number at home, so this was the second mistake, but I am told, let me fix. We arrived in town, I went to buy a card for my cell phone in hopes that I call home and the woman who takes care of the house in my absence, will answer the phone, I will tell her where we noted the account, and i will solve the problem. We arrived in town, I bought the cards, I wanted to call ... and surprise, I ended the phone battery. I searched for a charger for the phone, I don t found, because it's Saturday, and almost shops are closed, I am told, let me go to the bank, and there, girls who work there will help me, because they know me long time ago . Get there, and they give me their phone service and call home, of course no one answers me. I think, what to do, have someone give me the account number to my home. Call to a neighbor, that helps me a lot, and has 80 years.Of course she don t find in my home this damn number. Girl from the bank tell me, lady you musty calm down, come Monday and we resolve. Well, I accepted defeat, I accepted that was my fault, I accepted as it is, I walked to the city for nothing. I got back home, on a cold rain without solve anything, I entered the house, and notes with the desired number was in the hallway, into my house, on a table, so I had a day of nothing, with a bad luck large as house , and to be honest, I was defeated by a phone card, an account number, a neighbor who does not see well, my mind which one has forgotten why i left home. So I had a bad day, terrible, .. Do you have days like this, when only one of anything, everything went wrong, when you was ready to explode, when everything was black,? What did you do on days like this when everything was against you? And my day is not over, who knows what will happen until tonight?
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10 responses
@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
27 Feb 10
Hi there Ice. It happens to all of us and i guess the best thing is to... let me think... well we should concentrate on the positives and if they really aren't any on that day, the best solution is... to go to sleep early :D and hope the next day will be better. I have had bad days of course, just like anyone else, like when i had to go to the post office on a blizzard day just to find out it was closed on that date (even IF the NOTICE from them said to come THAT day); or the time was trying to go and buy some stuff for the house at a hypermarket and the tram ran out of power in one of the passages in the city... we were stuck for half an hour there... and so on and so forth... i am sure there are others more bad than this, but those came to mind at this hour.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
27 Feb 10
Hi Elitess, now I am relaxed, I can smile, but if you asked me this in the morning if all world is in black, for sure that my answer was "black" ..i hate days like these can all go inside
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@dawnald (84133)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Mar 10
Sorry you had a bad day. I've had a few like that too. If possible, I solve it buy getting in a nice hot bath, soaking and reading a book! Hope you got it resolved today!
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
1 Mar 10
Hi, today just in one hour I do what i can t do Saturday all day ... I could today even make fun of trouble, after i solve all the problems, i am a kind of person who wants to make everything better, faster, today all .. seem that i have to take into account that tomorrow is a day too.
@DeenaD (2688)
• United States
28 Feb 10
I know those kinds of days too. Just remember that it won't last, and a better day is coming. As they say, this too shall pass.
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• Canada
28 Feb 10
Those are the days when I just drop everything, and go off to the coffee shop to read and relax. If things aren't going to go well at home or at work, if I'm having one of those bad days, I might as well just go somewhere nice, and do something that I know is not going to fall apart. Thank God the cafe is right up the street.
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• Philippines
28 Feb 10
That happens sometimes, they say when it rains , it pours.When it seems my day is like that, i try to think positive.I know this is hard especially when i'm so annoyed and i dont seem to get anything right. So what i do is, i try to control my attitude inasmuch as i cant control the situations around me.I just try to think that these bad things happens so that wrinkles will add up to my face.No way haha. I talk to myself or write it down whatever it is thats inside me boiling up. Things always gets better..and tomorrow is always a new day.
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
dear ice, dwell on the positives. tomorrow is another day and bad days dont last for long. cheers. ann
• Malaysia
28 Feb 10
that is one big mess up day.. usually when u tell the story to others they will give you comforting words... well its human nature.... and since i am human then i am giving one also... take the incident as fate... someone or something is testing u.. and u should always give the best..huhu...and i pray that you will always have a better day then the previous one..
@satya4186 (280)
• India
28 Feb 10
yes i am also thinking that according to you yours day was unlucky for you but don't worry every day is not equal next will be a good just think positive go ahead but this is a unforgettable mistakes or matter that you never forget it.
@Hatley (164772)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 10
hi icesmile oh yes I think most of us have been there at least as few times. I think once onething goes wrong, we get nervous and start making a few errors, and then things escalate., I got up this one morning late, the access bus that was supposed to pick me up was sitting in back of my apt. honking its horn so dressed and hurried out so I could make my appointment with the physical therapy place, got in the bus, and half way down the ten blocks, we were held up by a car accident with sirens blaring ambulance the whole lot. so got to the physical therapy place and signed in .the attended looked a bit surprised. Mrs Hatley she said, your appointment is not until next thursday at this time. i said no no I had it down for today. but I dug out my appt card and sure enough, i was a week early. the bus had already left and I was stuck there for an hour. I climbed back down the stairs, tripped, hurt my arm. I managed to walk to my doctors office as it was really hurting and he was sick. well now it quit hurting so bad so turned arou nd and asked them to call access and got them to come as soon as possible and take me home.got home and found I had missed a call from a dear friend,. Then went to count my money and I had paid the access driver an extra dollar so I had one dollar left,. by then I just g ave up , ate some chocolate with a bowl of ice cream and vegged out in front of the tv. myson came home late from work to find me sound asleep , His amused voice woke me when he said wouldnt you be more comfortable in bed? so I went to bed and could not fall asleep,end of a perfect awful day.
• United States
28 Feb 10
Focus on the positives, try and control your destiny as much as you can.