what do you look in a husband his face or his heart??

Malaysia
February 28, 2010 12:09am CST
well, i am a man.. and 26 years of age.. i was wondering... guys and girls... which are more important in finding a husband?? the physical aspect?? handsome, cute?? or his heart?? kind, tolerate... so come on give me your thoughts on this..
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
28 Feb 10
You have to have a good and honest heart. Looks for me, is definately last in line. No offense, but trusting a good looking guy, ain't always easy. And that is a very important aspect, Trust. But if you are good looking, have a good and honest heart, a great sense of humor and can be loyal you have a good chance. TATA.
• Malaysia
28 Feb 10
mmm i know i am a very patient person and tolerate.... honesty.. i dont know about that yet.. haven't been tested for that trait.. tq
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
28 Feb 10
Ok, so let us get that test started. I am very good at that, but not very patient. TATA.
@danitykane (3193)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
heart. I don't go for looks alone. Cute guys are nice to have but underneath it all the personality and kindness of that person is what I'm after. I think that is more important than physical attributes.
• Malaysia
28 Feb 10
mmm similar response from lots of the women... then i guess not all girls go for looks.. most of them take ur heart much more than looks..mmm so better be good at heaart from now on
@advokatku (4039)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 10
select his heart, just not base only his face ... for select heart, treasure and listen to your heart
@agv0419 (3030)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
I thinks sometimes women are after for the looks but sometimes attitude too is important. If you feel in love with a handsome men sometimes who feel insecure and jealous in other women that attracted in your handsome.
@MoonGypsy (4615)
• United States
28 Feb 10
i like the kind of guys like i have now. he is very very handsome. in fact, he is striking! but not so cute that he is feminine looking. he has a cut and fit body...great abs, but not tooo big where it is threatening. just manly enough to fit my body in. he has the most beautiful long down to his back wavy hair and light brown eyes. he is not too tall but not too short. everything about him physically is a turn on and always was right from the start. you know what really turns me on about him...his spirit. i love his mind and his soul. i love his talents and his skills. i love that he is the father of our daughter and that he embraced the son i had when we met. i love that he loves him so much he wants to adapt him. looks are important, but not without a beautiful mind and spirit.
• Malaysia
28 Feb 10
i am very happy for u.. keep on loving your family...
@erikmama (12934)
• United States
28 Feb 10
While I think it is imporatnat that you are atleast attracted to the person you are with, I think it is the person on the inside that matters to me anyway. What good is a handome face or ripped body if the guy is a total jerk? To often women are ayttracted to a guy just because of his looks. Maybe this is something that comes with age,too.For me a man has to be kind, considerate, patient, fun, loving, and most of all, treat me with respect and love as he should...Looks comes in after all thjose/
• Malaysia
28 Feb 10
that is a lot of good traits there.... and have u ever met such a guy??
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
It's kind of hard not to be shallow. There's always the tendency of a person to take too much thoughts on looks. But to me, it always gets to me what kind of personality the person has eventually. It usually starts out with looks, and from there maybe you can explore the possibilities of the personality that the person has, which is always the final determining factor for any relationship. But then again there are these people whose personalities really are great even though they're not really that good looking. Really depends.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
Physical attraction is a part of looking for a mate but it should not be center to it. I am more of a person who looks into someone's heart first rather than how he looks like. I must admit though that my husband is handsome even though I dont tell him that all the time. If a person has a good heart, and if he knows how to take care of himself and how to make himself look good then it's even better. We should always focus on what is in the person's heart. Let's say that you have the prettiest partner in the world but his/her heart is as black as charcoal then that would be a different story. Beauty also dont stay forever, beauty wears out as time goes on but a good heart will never wear out.