Did you ever fall in love with a friend?

Philippines
February 28, 2010 9:03am CST
I almost fell inlove with a friend.. We almost fell in love with each other..however we don't want to hurt other people's feelings
4 responses
@elly1384 (353)
• Bulgaria
28 Feb 10
hello , i fall in love with my very good friend and now we live togather for seven years and we have a child... it is not bad ,because we didn`t think that it will happen and it just happens ,we were friens from school, in the meaning that i studied with his brother and he was in the higher class and we were going out the three and some years we were spending so good like friends and then i didn`t think about love with him.......
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
i'm happy for you elly..
@jugsjugs (13045)
28 Feb 10
I would never fall in love with a friend as i think that is when you lose a good friend.When people split up it is not a nice experience so i would never want to lose a good friend so to stop that from happening then i would not get with a friend.I do know someone that has lost alot of friends by doing this so i never bother even thinking about it.
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
That is right, that's why we decided to be friends than lover..and stayed friends forever..
@cris08 (2)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
falling in love with a friend? its sound good but that would be the hardest thing I will do. hurting each other will be the end of that. and few only pass in that stage.
• India
28 Feb 10
Hi buddy, It's not unfair to fall in love with a friend because the basis of any kind of relationship is understanding.The difference of being friend and being a lover is simply is to know that 'I can't walk fast due to period'!The rest of the things are all the same with both.It all depends upon the person's integrity on withstanding a passive situation like a break up.Often we try to escape out of the terrible consequences of a traumatic situation.With time and maturity this can be handled properly maintaining the friendship all along.Things that are not meant to us,will never be ours even though we try hard to hold.A commitment means making a bond to face all the situation that will come across in our way even though it's hard to overcome.That's the true judgement of the integrity of a relationship-of a bond.Please,don't let anything negative consume your mind.It's all your responsibility to carry on a budding relationship.Your love is enough to drive forward with you two.So...you know what I mean...