Care to remember you monthsary?

Philippines
March 1, 2010 9:34am CST
Does anyone here care to remember this date? Do you make a note on this and have alarmed on time on your phone or what? Well, I would not say I do not care for this, but on every relationship that I have, I always forget the date... I could just remember when my partner would say Oh this is our month-sary and I would be feeling sorry for being oblivious.
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9 responses
• United States
1 Mar 10
Exactly a month since you have been together? No Because I don't know when Exactly it all started. I know the date I felt that I loved him but That's not the same. We had been together earlier than that date.
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hi sarah, Yes, that exact date... That is my reason too why I become forgettable when comes to our monthsary... honestly, the very time we have been together, I mean we were partner... I could not really say that I am already fallen in love... I am just attracted though... but time nurtured the feeling and now I can say I am really in love...
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• United States
3 Mar 10
My date is different than his. He loved me Way before I loved him. We haven't discussed this. If and when we make a year I would celebrate the whole month not just the dare I have in my head.
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Then I sensed till now he haven't known that... Well, most cases are like that my friend... you are just true to yourself... maybe that is the reason too why I forget the date we've been together because I can say I am inlove not the day she said yes... but a couple of weeks after that I have found her real beauty...
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
I don't really know why it matters but we do celebrate it. I'm not complaining though, it's just that we are less than a month away to having an 8-year relationship so I guess it would seem funny to some people that we still celebrate "monthsary". It's fun too, having something to look forward to every month, making that single day most special every month for the both of us. I don't really forget about it but there are times when it would slip my mind as it approaches, never yet on the day.
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Hi choybel, Wow, it's not funny for me my friend... indeed that is really helpful for the both of you... you can talk a lot about your long relationship on that special occasion... how I wish I could have such a a very long relationship... Tell me your secret? hahaha,
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
HEHE!Well, if you really want to know, it's actually not so hard. The first two years of our relationship were spent in really getting to know each other, it took that long because we barely had the chance to meet everyday and even if we did we had little time to spend together. I guess it just went on and so it lasted this long. I have to add to the fact though that we truly are inlove with each other so that's perhaps the biggest secret there is. Hehe!
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hi choybel, Nice to hear that... and so happy to know that even if you have a little time to spend together within that years, you still last long.. and because you are so in-love with each other... wow I wish I and my partner could survive a very long time like yours... in my past relationship, 1 or 2 years is very long... We are inlove though, or I am inlove for sure... there were just some things that thwarted our relationship to grow... most cases are distants... I really found it hard to keep a relationship miles away... I am jealous person so I could not really help myself...
@rmuxagirl (7568)
• United States
1 Mar 10
I remember the date and what not, but I don't make it a big deal. We just say things like huh its been 3 months since we started dating, doesn't seem like it. I mean we make a bigger deal out of years instead of months. Its more important to focus on what we are doing and how we are making our relationship work and last to that year anniversary instead of whether or not we celebrate a monthsary.
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hi my friend... yes, I agree.. somehow, couples will value more on the number of years they achieve together, and the memories they share and enjoy together being partner of love... Have a great day ahead... happy mylotting!
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Well, it matters a lot to me. Though it is just a monthsary, I never fail to greet my bf and celebrate. We are away from each other and this does not make any difference. I visit the church during the date, thank God for giving him to me... He always call me during our monthsary. I never forget the date because it has been my favorite number since we became gf&bf. There's no wonder that we have greater celebrations for our anniversaries. We send gifts during this special day!
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hi reco13, I am so happy to hear your story... and very glad to know that you value that date... and even glad to know that you keep your relationship despite that you are away from each other... I am weak in terms of distance my friend... I have a gf before... I know that we are in love with other... that was during my first year college, we had a very rare, little and short time together after I transferred from other university... I always forget our monthsary but she had the effort to remind me every month... but when she also transferred school outskirt from the city (to the other distant city) we tried and I tried to call her, and she did the same... I was third year college that time that I lost my sim card... I was not able to memorize her number, I try to find her on friendster but I could not able to find her... til now I was not able to communicate her, she could not reach me either... I love her.. but the distant separated us... even I have my partner now, She is still vivid to me...
@pierrella (1088)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
We always celebrate our monthsary. We normally call or text each other come midnight :) I don't but we never forget about it. Maybe because we remind each other days before the day itself. On the day itself, we go out on a dinner.
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Hi my friend, thanks for coming in again... and I am so much glad to hear that... I can imagine your sweet dinner then... maybe next time we would plan to have a dinner, I am a little jealous with you hahaha
@mjcookie (2274)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
I don't have a boyfriend so I don't really try to remember anything. Seems that a lot of people do really care about that. I first heard the term "month-sary" in high school, because everyone involved in a relationship there seemed to celebrate it. I cannot blame them--when you're in love you would really want everything to be special.
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
That is it mj, when you are madly inlove, you would make every memorable dates very special... like you, I also first heard the term during my high school, but since then I was oblivious when came to mine... Well, good luck my friend... soon, you would have your month-sary with the lucky guy who would own your heart...
@Bradpete (822)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Some people loves to celebrate it. Some received gift monthly from their fiancee.
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Hi Bradpete, Yes that is right... some couple give a great importance on their month-sary, don't you?
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Hi. primeaque86. I always remember my anniversary. I may not celebrate it as often, but I do remember it. If I forget it, I feel kind of bad. I know that this date is special even though we don't celebrate it.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
7 Jun 10
A very bad habit.