would you want friends or would you rather be alone?

United States
March 2, 2010 5:06pm CST
its cool to have friends sometimes but the way every one has been acting some times i rather had never meet them at all. I DON'T WANT ANY ADVIES WITH ME SO CALLED FRIENDS I'M JUST USING IT FOR AN EXAMPLE I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHATS YOU ANSWER TO THE QUETION. if you had a choese would you pick keep firends or be alone?
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15 responses
@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
11 Apr 10
Hi persona_touch, It is important to have friends because we can not live our life alone. We need them as an adviser, someone that we can share our secret or problems and lend their help whenever we need one. But as every human being has their moods and it is unknown when it would be changed, we need to accept that they would be moody at one time or another as we also do it now and then. How do we feel when our friends being moody is the same feeling that our friends has when we are moody. But not everyone can be our friends. We need to look into their activities and their manners. Some friends would bring us happiness while some so called friends would bring hell to us. Some would be around us in every situation be it good or bad. But some would only with us when we have something that they need. They would be gone once we did not have it anymore. So, it is very important to choose the right person to be our friends. So, a lot more things should be put into consideration before we pick someone as our friends beside their on and off moody act. If I could put my trust on him and/or her and they were always be with me on any situation then I would be happy to be their friends even though their mood always changed.
• China
5 Mar 10
HI persona_touch, honestly,it is difficult to express how you feel about friend arond your life,when we was teenager, everybody was good guy,we were doing homework , eatting cream,play game together,and sharing secret with others like boys,all that we will do with our best friend,at that time,we did't have other think.it just if you treat me as friend ,i will do it too.along with increasing of our age,the amounts deduct from our list,that is the truth,even though it make us so sad.now working in a company,i always have no idea to find somebody to be my friend,cause it's really hard,coz they are adult having own thinking ,which maybe diffrent from us.
• India
3 Mar 10
yes i want friends because we have many things or time which we want to spend with friends only this is a relation which is not provided by society we make it by own self.
@Gany15k (1674)
• India
3 Mar 10
I would always try to be with friends.They are my precious gifts.So I won't miss them.Even when I'm sad or depressed my friends will make me laugh and feel better.This has happened many times in my life.I always prefer being with friends.Life is to enjoy.So friends make us enjoy the life.But some prefer being alone.It is not wrong with them.They would have brought up like.But if they were with friends then they also will love them.
@Alivia (47)
• India
3 Mar 10
One cannot live alone whole though out his life without any friends.all friends cannot be bad if u feel that all of your friends acting badly to u then problem is with u. Rather i think keeping good friends and not to be alone.
@machivado (529)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 10
I guess if they are being a pain, I will just leave them be, but at least hear their complaints. It's good when we have the solution but we can't always do that. At least we can talk to them that way. We just can't help them all the time.
3 Mar 10
I like to have friends but as most people do I also like alone time. I have always been one to have a small group of close friends rather than a big group of not all that close friends but thats the way I like it.
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
it depends to my mood, sometimes there comes a time that i wanted people around me to make me feel better or happy. theres also a time that i dont want to talk to anyone coz i need time to think and clear my mind as maybe by talking with friends will only make worst coz there will be a lot of advises from negative to positive that will only make my mind more disturb.
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Honestly, it is nice to have close friends to rely on especially during personal crisis. It is very difficult to live alone, having friends bring more benefits because they can offer comforts when we are troubled. so I want to keep good friends.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
there are times when i needed someone for company but i really don't seem very comfortable when i hangout with a lot of people or with my so called "friends". there are instances when i chose to be alone because i know that i can handle more myself if no one's really bothering me or something. but, i'm not saying that friends aren't important, it's just that things will work out fine sometimes when you're doing your stuffs on your own.
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
I'd usually prefer to be alone as I value my quiet time. Of course having friends come and chat are nice every once in a while. I don't think anything beats sharing stuff with your close friends while hanging out but it's something I do sparingly.
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
That depends on what kind of friends do you have. In my part,my friends are a great help with me,in many times i had proven about it. My friends never leave me when i needed them the most. They are always willing to extend their help...could it be physically,emotionally and even with financial matter. I can say that,my friends are good and true friends.
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
i like to hang out with my friends when i'm tired, or when i get out from work, they ease up my worries, that's because it's fun when i'm with them, we always have something to laugh about. although there are also some times when i just want to be left alone, it gives me time to think and plan for things. ^^
@DOLLYBABY (2536)
• United States
3 Mar 10
as you said it's cool sometimes to have friends....that's how i really see it...but i do prefer to have distant different likes in a different country or neighborhood where i don't get to see them everyday...people are just problems in general...maybe the ones that i know and that are around me...i try my best to live with people and stay away from them as well as i can as well...i only have one close friend apart from my husband and i hardly see her because she dedicated herself to a boyfriend.years of my life i always have so called friends to i shorten and eliminate my friend list.i don't care for gossipers and trouble makers.
@tonyllenium (6267)
• Italy
2 Mar 10
in many cases it is difficult to define real friends and just people you know because you see at work or because they just live near you!!So i guess it is good having friend because alone sometimes is boring and not so good..but in some cases even have false friends should be problematic as you don't have one...so it depends..