things you find attractive and unattractive in a women

March 4, 2010 3:07pm CST
Hello I am a women, and I would to hear from the men (and lesbian women) as to what traits you find attractive and unattractive in a women? This discussion is purely for fun and I would be interested to hear the responses. Is it how lovely we smell? Our soft skin? Or our feminine vocal tone? Or for you is it something much deeper then that. What are the things you dislike? How would you describe your ideal women in a nutshell, looks and all. I'm not flirting this is purely for research purposes lol!
6 responses
@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 10
hi renaissance2010 I am not a lesbian but an elderly woman and I wou ld hope men found women who were not needy and clingy to be more attractive as they were more equal and would be a help to men. Also I think that men are taken by woman who smell sweet and are kind to others, and do not use 'harsh words . I hope a man appreciates a woman who has a brain and uses it. Also a woman who wants to attract a man should be sure to lower her voice and not use that poor witttle me tone, thats not, attractive at all. A woman should be self assured and not wishy washy in her outlook.
4 Mar 10
Hello, I feel quite honoured to talk to an eldery women on this subject, as I do not have any grandparents or anyone from the generation of women I consider to be well mannered and a role model for the young women of today. I am 24 years old and I have been with my partner for 5 and a half years we have a toddler and we are happy, but I want to get married and he wants to wait a few more years. I am quite old fashioned as my mother is 60 as she had me when she was in her mid thirties.I want to get married to feel respected as a couple. I am very lady like and well kept and not clingy and very independent. What is his holdup is it the "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? How would you handle this? What are your views on our generation compared with how the kids in your youth era courted? I mean no disrepect, i'm just very interested and like sponge as much knowledge as possible.
• Malaysia
5 Mar 10
The most attractive element in a woman probably can be describe on how she respond to a man/woman who give clear indication that he/she attracted to her.If the woman went too easy for the woo and flirting then she probably looks attractive.What im trying to say here is Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Some people look deep inside your heart to look for the attractiveness. Some looks for physical appearance.As for me my ideal type of girl is a bit traditional but at the same time she must be knowledgeable and open-minded.Simple make-up will do and believe me guys hate 'high decible voices' type of girls.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
5 Mar 10
What a lovely question! I know what I like in a woman, after being with so many ladies... let me answer your direct questions first... Yes, I do love the smell- a lady with a lovely deo or perfume can drive me crazy... A caring, lovely feminine tone is a gift from Heaven for me. I like the ladies who're more understanding, loving and caring... I date those ladies who appreciate that I care for them and I like them... I am committed with a lady, already and yet, with her consent I do a little healthy dating. The reason: Me and my fiancee are placed 7 seas apart from each other. So I date girls, for pure fun... And hey, I don't cheat any of those, okay? I always clear it in the beginning that although I like them, I possibly can't think about a life-long relationship, as I have given my commitment already.. Some ladies don't like it and they leave... Those who appreciate my frankness and have the same mindset that I have, come with me for loads of fun!
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
For me I like women who are petite. Most of the women I hooked up were small and petite. They also look young for their age. Physically I look at a womans lips and eyes. The smile also counts for me but the best thing that turns me on in a woman is her intelligence. Nothing beats a beautiful woman with brains.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
I admire woman physically...the way she dressed herself...no matter her physical built is.(she can be fat or thin) As long as she knows how to dressed herself and how confident she is with herself. The way she walks and talks...the way she moves. I am very keen with those aspects. It doesn't need an educated person to look and act decent,but,it comes naturally. She also doesn't need to have a pretty face or sexy body to attract attention. For me,a woman's gracefulness and natural look is lovelier than those cosmetics,or overly make-up woman. This is my view..and personal opinion.
• India
5 Mar 10
Hello, Well something that I like about women are also something that I would like to see in other human beings. I appreciate simplicity and straight forwardness. I like gentle and polite ladies. About the vocal tune, it would sound odd if a girl sounds similar like a grown up boy. That would surely turn me off. I dislike pretension of intellectuality. I hate it when a girl has unrealistic elevated thinking about herself. I would like to see kindness in them. I hate cruel people with pretty faces. I've seen many. Smell? Can't say anything about it. I think that can be modified anytime according to one's will. God bless you