How would you react if ??

@cloud31 (5811)
March 6, 2010 3:24pm CST
If your partner unexpectedly nor accidentally calls you in another name or differ from the way you address each other! Ex.hon,darling etc. And not even the name of his secretary/boss and not even a name of any of his family member or not a friend of him.. What will you think about? Will you doubt him/her about this? Will you asked him/her whose name he just mentioned. Will you start to nag about this and starts a fight? Or you will just ignore and let him pass? Your views and opinion are most welcome! Happy myLotting!
15 responses
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
7 Mar 10
This seems more of your experience Cloud---am i right .If my partner utters another name repeatedly then i would try to have a talk with her----a real serious one just kidding. i would wait until she confesses about it--- i dont go for a fight any time they make things worser to a relationship.Keeping your coooool in these kinda situations does a lot than we expect.
@cloud31 (5811)
7 Mar 10
hey sunny! You're absolutely wrong--this never happened to me---and i won't let it happened huh!I came up with topic with one movie I watched a while ago--you come up teasing huh,of course not my own experienced and if that would be me and him on this situation I"m sure hes not him to make this mistake,that would be ME..lol. Just imagined how would he react!!lol..seriously I think of this if its will happen to me then i will surely "keep myself quiet the whole day through"..lol. Fighting and nagging to a partner is not really my way, I am a quiet type in this kind of situation,I always keep my self calm and let him realized if he did it right and confess later all to me.hehehe.. How was that sound to you??Does it make sense..?I'm even cooooolerrrr than you!lol
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
7 Mar 10
you seem to be really calm as per your words(i do not get amazed if you follow the same in your real life too) and at times i think that you're toooo lazy . Coming to being cooooler than me-------i dont accept it
@cloud31 (5811)
7 Mar 10
What makes you think I'm toooo lazy??huh?If you don't accept being cooooler than you---that's also fine not a problem at all!Let see how coool you are ---but no foul moves here! huhuhu i don't want my responses gets deleted.whewww!!
@common_man (1799)
• India
7 Mar 10
Hi cloud If that happens, i will definitely ask who this new person is? and tease her for some time, for fun. But will not bother me much, no nagging for sure.fighting with partner is almost ruled out in my case. But yes i will take that as an indication that i need to be much closer to her emotionally, and try to contribute more positively towards our relationship. Enjoy and keep smiling.
@cloud31 (5811)
7 Mar 10
Exactly you need to be more closer to her in that case as maybe you're getting not much time talking with her and she even forget whom she is talking too.lol. That's good you can handle this kind of situation peacefully. Thank you for sharing friend.Have blessed day ahead!
• India
27 Apr 10
Thanks for BR cloud. I feel like dancing with joy on getting BR from you!
• India
7 Mar 10
yes i would react but not seriously........................
@cloud31 (5811)
7 Mar 10
That's nice,cool indeed!! Thanks for responding!Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Well im still single and not in a relatiomship either but "if" my partner will call me in another address that different from what we call each other will i maybe tell him "is it me that your calling ....??" and if he cannot answer me directly i will suspect him that his dating someone else.And before i will take some arrogant action i will first investigate and hope to capture him on action!!
@cloud31 (5811)
7 Mar 10
Hi prepzter! Most young individual will do the same as you have in mind now.Its normal to have this reaction but try to have him honest to tell you and confess who is the owner of that name he is just mentioned. Happy myLotting!
@dentabz (142)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Everyone can commit mistakes. At first maybe I will let it go. But if it will be repeated over and over I think it is already the heart that speaks. Of course I will now doubt and jealous and this time she needs confrontation.
@ladyhaly (92)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
If he isn't able to provide a good explanation for it, then I'll start getting suspicious. Women's intuition wasn't called as is for nothing. I've found that whenever I felt something wrong was afoot or something just didn't fit in, that there's a huge reason behind all of it and that my gut feelings are mostly right. So think and if you aren't satisfied, look upon it. "Trust but verify", as the Russians and John F. Kennedy would say.
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
I will never start a fight when it happens, people not only our partners are can committed mistakes in calling names especially when they are expose in different people that is sign of confusion due to stress. However, if the scenario is habitual, I will confronting her and clarify the situation and before to generate a conclusion.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Hi IJ! If that would happen, first I would get curious. Maybe I would ask her "Why did you call me that way?". She's answer should be valid or else I would feel a little bit sad. Well, maybe that is the one she used to call her ex boyfriend. It would not be a big deal actually, not unless she will repeat it again several times. But as long as she is showing me and letting me feel that she really loves me so much, then there will be no problem. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
@madteaparty (2763)
• Japan
7 Mar 10
Um, it has never happened to me that my boyfriend would do that, but I admit that sometimes I call people by a wrong name as my head seems to be thinking on too many things at the same time . That's why if it happened to my boyfriend, I wouldn not doubt him, as I know that it's something normal to happen.
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
i will just ask but i wont nag about it. she might be thinking something thats why she called me with different name or pet names. i just dont want to start a fight over a single mistake of calling me with the name differ from what we address each other. im that type of person. so, ill just ask and let it pass. maybe the next time this thing happens again, then thats the time ill start to ask more questions. keep safe! :)
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Though I really can't see my partner doing this, but if ever it happens, I would correct him first and ask him who the person is. I am easy to talk to and I understand, I hate fights and I always try t avoid it. If he's really defensive about it then probably something is going on, but i rally don't think my partner will do that. I mean we've been together for years and not even once he mistaken me for another person, I mean calling me using another person's name.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
of course ill be shocked and confront him about the issue. how come? of course the reason he/she was able to mentioned that name because he/she used to hang around or spent time with that particular person. very bad! thats the starts of miss understanding and lost of trust if it happens to me.
• United Arab Emirates
7 Mar 10
i'll be furious with that person and hang up quick
7 Mar 10
well.. i'll just tease him like what common_man said.. but seriously, i'll be kind of jealous..
@skbrence (476)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Hi there cloud31... Well, maybe, if it is the first time, it's okay since I am not the only person she knows... On the second mistake, I would ask why but I would never fight against her... On the third time, this would be the time that I would really be a DETECTIVE... I'll just keep my keen eyes on her... =))