Friend Habit
By lampar
@lampar (7584)
United States
March 6, 2010 3:33pm CST
Hi, friend! What irritate you the most among many of your friends habits? For me it is my friends smoking habit. I usually avoid talking to my friend face to face when he /she is puffing his cigarette all the way to heaven, i hated it seeing all his smokes come right in front of my face and fill up every air space around me, i personally feel that smoker is a filthy person and can never understand why my friends believe that smoking is such a 'cool' habit to show in front of everyone. I always try to persuade my friends to quit smoking but unsuccessful most of the time.
Whenever i try to use the computer after my friend was puffing away while surfing the internet, i found that his cigarette ashes are all over the keyboard and on the table, it is such a filthy and messy scenario. So have you experience such thing from your friends like mine, or you have a different type of encounter with your friends habit that gave you a nightmare and you feel like sharing with us here.
5 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
i really dont have friends, guess i was a loner and get rid of my friends during high school. but my wife has a lot of friends and they became my friends as well. my wife's friends are very vocal so we are very vocal to them as well. so we say what we dont like and they just do it specially if they need to go to our house. if they smoke they cant smoke in our house. if there are friends that i dont like to talk then i just stay inside our room and play video games.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
believe it or not it is true. maybe you can not do that but i can and i did. there are people like you who are friendly and cant live without friends but i guess there are people who are like me. at first my wife does not believe with that too, when we started living together she held a small party at our pad and she told me to invite a few of my friends and she will invite a few of her friends. so that she will know my crowd and i will know hers. all the visitors was her friends. she pity me at first but thats the way i am. one of my wife's cousin even told me that i have a few signs of autism for i would rather have my own world than going out with people.... but thats just me. when i was in college from school i go straight at home and stay in my room. play video games or sleep. it maybe wierd for others but this is me.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
8 Mar 10
Ok bird, i know now it is you, each one is different in one or many way. Compare to you, at least you get to play video game after school, i had never get to do that, mostly do my homework, school work and sleep. No computer at that time for me to play video game or even watch TV except homework and school work and sometime go out play game with few buddy like soccer,table tennis,& tennis. 
@lampar (7584)
• United States
8 Mar 10
Hi, bird, how is that possible you don't have friends, i don't know how is that possible for you to get rid of all your friends from high school, it is too difficult for me to do that, many of my close friends are make up of childhood and high school friends presently, you gotta be kidding me ?? I am sure your wife will become your friend too and vice versa, because you are marry. But i assume they are different from one own high school friends since they are a lot more like 'buddy' type of friend compare to the friends of your spouse. So long as they understand what can or can't do with you while at your home, then i don't see any problem with that. But smoking is the habit you don't like from your friend too...we have the same problem here....
Thank for your sharing here. Happy mylotting to you. 
Thank for your sharing here. Happy mylotting to you. 
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 10
we have the same problem. I don't like being in one place with smoker. It makes me dizzy n nausea. Moreover, I can't stand when my friend's farting. It also makes me nausea. Just wanna get otta her face! 
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@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
6 Mar 10
it is especially bad when you don't smoke. i hope they quit. i would offer them an ash tray when they were on the computer. "if you are going to smoke please no ashes on my keyboard, ok". i don' t like friends who are late, try to top you, or who are extremely sloppy. i think i don't have those friends anymore anyway.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
7 Mar 10
Hi, clock123! You are tired of your friend bad habit like sloppy and not in time in appointment, so you just refuse to be around your friend anymore, you must have hated it when it happen often, i probably will feel the same too if my friend do that all the time, may be i will not have an appointment with him or ask him for favor instead of severe my friendship with him.
Thank for sharing your experience here.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
7 Mar 10
Haha... emine08!! We face the same problem with our friends here, too bad i can never get my friend to quit smoking even though i try hard to advice him /her but it is a habit that is very difficult to stop for anyone, i always fail in my effort in this case. 
Thank for sharing here...
Thank for sharing here... 
