What to do when you're broken hearted?

March 8, 2010 12:56am CST
Common questions, but it's really hard to move on. For me, I had my heart broken for many times! That's why, I know how to properly handle it. Sometimes I get tired of having relationships. I think that, what's important nowadays is to live. Having your meal three times a day and have clean peaceful environment. To those who are first time to be broken hearted, don't waste time crying! It's not the end of the world, and God always have a reason for what's happening in our life! GOD bless us!
6 responses
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
Live life and be happy. It's not like your a robot doing the same time over and over again. Chill and smile, be grateful that you broke up because you deserve much better..
@mich_23 (121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Right. Each relationship is a learning experience. Learn from mistakes and be stronger as well, so once you encounter the same experience again, you will know how to handle it well.
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Nice. I hope that you learned something.
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Breaks up SUCK - especially if you have to see him/her daily like at school. But spend more time with your girls and go out. it will take a month or so to get comfortable and talk to other guys, not really going out but just get friendly with cool guys that will get your mind of him. Don't listen to droopy sad depressing music. I m sure you will have more breaks ups in the future that could be worse so just be strong. I broke up with my girlfriend after 2 years. that was different but i did it doing those things i said. I know it hurts and really sucks right now, but take some time for yourself and allow yourself time to grieve over the loss of your relationship. Then venture out a little and start thinking about dating again.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Crying is the first thing to do. It's a way to express hidden pains. Share my heartaches to others. They will give pieces of advise. Reach out to others. You will realize that others had more painful experiences that you had. Bring the best in you. You will find out that there better things and better people around you which you failed to recognize before.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
8 Mar 10
broken heart is better than a toothache ...
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
I had my heart broken a couple of times already but its never easy to heal a wounded heart. Its never easy to let go of someone you cared for in a long time. Its even worse if your break up is sudden due to other unforeseen events. The shock of the break up will only worsen the situation. Although this is not my first time to experience the pains of a heartache I know that I will get through this eventually. It usually takes me a long time to heal but I know once I am healed I become much stronger inside and a much better man.
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
i've been trough a lot of heartbreaks and pain and the only thing i keep doing everytime i am into this situation is to cling on myself and love myself more. i also gave myself the time to cry,just to let go of the pain and tell myself to move on, for there's no other choice but to be happy. after all, tomorrow will be another day.