What will you feel if your boyfriend is your friend's ex boyfriend?
18 Mar 10
That depends. Did I start dating him first or was she my friend first. If I started dating him first then I guess it would be alittle awkward at times and I wouldnt really feel comfortable sharing things about the relationship with her but I would still date him. If she was my friend first then there are a few more variables: 1. How good of friends are we (range from aquantance to best friend foreve will change my decision by the obvious course of not if shes my best friend - no matter waht - and maybe if shes just a nothing friend I barely see except toay 'hi'). 2. How long were they dating for? (A few hours dosnt count but a fewmonths or years does, the range will depend on the length of time they dated). 3. How long have they been broken up (if its been 20 years I have a feeling shed get over it if its been 2 days then thats just innapropriate). 4. there would have to be a discussion between me and him, me and her and him and her - whatever happens from there...happens. The point is that there is a lot toconsider and a lot to fret over. If I was even considering dating my friends ex-boyfriend then I would go through a lot of emotional and mental peril.
18 Mar 10
I don't want to be in this situation. I would never engage into this kind of relationship.It's a betrayal for my friend's part. And I don't want to hurt my friend.It is inevitable that the past and present relationhips would be opened up and get compared at.It's very complicated.
18 Mar 10
it is not unusual and sometimes it happens... i was new girlfriend to the boy ,who is friend with my ex...is it real -yes it happens to me and the feeling to between good friends ,is really stupid but the life is life and sometimes it make us to seem like idiots...