What will you feel if your boyfriend is your friend's ex boyfriend?

Philippines
March 18, 2010 7:14am CST
I didn't experience that.. i just want to know your opinion.
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8 responses
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I'll feel just fine. It's her ex-boyfriend, it means he is not hers now. I will still feel comfortable because I have the right. Well, if I found out she's still in love with him, then I'll talk to her and make her understand me.
@jd107nette (1456)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
err.. that would be a very awkward situation especially when you introduce him to your friend and you guys would go out for bonding purposes... they would talk about certain topics that you have no idea of.. aw... that would sure hurt...
@laglen (19782)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I am a firm believer that there are unwritten rules of friendship. Dating your friends ex would fall under the big no no. There are far too many men out there to have to recycle them!
@jd107nette (1456)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
My boyfriend is my friend's Ex. but it's fine with me. i really don't feel anything bad about it. actually i feel bad only when they are avoiding each other. i even made a move to bring back the old friendship they had. :)
• Canada
18 Mar 10
That depends. Did I start dating him first or was she my friend first. If I started dating him first then I guess it would be alittle awkward at times and I wouldnt really feel comfortable sharing things about the relationship with her but I would still date him. If she was my friend first then there are a few more variables: 1. How good of friends are we (range from aquantance to best friend foreve will change my decision by the obvious course of not if shes my best friend - no matter waht - and maybe if shes just a nothing friend I barely see except toay 'hi'). 2. How long were they dating for? (A few hours dosnt count but a fewmonths or years does, the range will depend on the length of time they dated). 3. How long have they been broken up (if its been 20 years I have a feeling shed get over it if its been 2 days then thats just innapropriate). 4. there would have to be a discussion between me and him, me and her and him and her - whatever happens from there...happens. The point is that there is a lot toconsider and a lot to fret over. If I was even considering dating my friends ex-boyfriend then I would go through a lot of emotional and mental peril.
@avani26 (1521)
• India
18 Mar 10
First of all I would really not like it but then I do not think that it can be possible with me coz I would not my friends boyfriend and if he is her ex then I would surely not want to do anything with him.
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
I don't want to be in this situation. I would never engage into this kind of relationship.It's a betrayal for my friend's part. And I don't want to hurt my friend.It is inevitable that the past and present relationhips would be opened up and get compared at.It's very complicated.
@elly1384 (353)
• Bulgaria
18 Mar 10
it is not unusual and sometimes it happens... i was new girlfriend to the boy ,who is friend with my ex...is it real -yes it happens to me and the feeling to between good friends ,is really stupid but the life is life and sometimes it make us to seem like idiots...