At what age will the men stop?

@krupesh (2608)
India
March 19, 2010 1:55am CST
I see a lot of old aged men staring at girls/women a lot lot younger than them.Its OK if they see & just enjoy the beauty but some stare as if they want to eat the girl then & there only.What do you think about this?
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20 responses
@ybong007 (6658)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
The reason is biological. Men by nature are meant to propagate their species. As long as their thing can go stiff, they will always be looking at the opposite s3x. Of course we have to take consideration the persons maturity. Most of those that you are referring to lacks breeding so they act like dogs. Some are too damned rich to care on how others think of them. Men will always be fascinated by beauty however there are those than don't know how to be discreet about it.
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
19 Mar 10
So for some who look it just might be only because they remember their past and some great memories return?
@ybong007 (6658)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
Not really. They look because what they're looking at is beautiful. Their past could just be near them or at their bedside. Sadly, the beauty that they once have, at least on the physical aspect is nowhere to be seen. As you know time takes away everything including... beauty.
• China
19 Mar 10
Yes you are right some man ready do that. Sometime i really feel bad and become so angry. There is no age limitation who do it. They will continue it until they die. But i also would like to say that some boys don't do it. They really respect girl and i respect such a man.
• China
20 Mar 10
But people can't look a girl like he wants to rape her or want to eat her. OK? By the way appreciate is different things i don't say that man can't appreciate a girl
@scififan43 (2440)
• United States
30 Jul 10
Men will have an interst in the ladies at any age. they will not stop becase tey are of a certian age. it is in the way men are and have been since the begianing of time.
@Ritchelle (3797)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
peace but men wouldn't stop. i think it is the way of thinking of people that has to stop. nobody can blame men for some women really are good to look at and it would be abnormal if no guy would appreciate this. this includes the fact that we all do things differently and that included how men stare. i'd say let them stare. they don't have much to appreciate anyway whenever they look in the mirror .
• United States
21 Mar 10
i dont think men ever out grow it just some are smart enough to do it more discreetly.. do i like it? it doesnt bother me unless the girl is underage but i think its just the way men are and primal they will always do it its just up to their maturity on if they do it rudely or discreetly
@safrabay (75)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
Biologically its normal..what's the difference if the man is older or younger..the same biological urge travels in the old man's veins as he was younger..and listen up, what you described is a sign that the old man is very much active...and he's destined to live longer...
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
20 Mar 10
Some men even at young age, maintain decency with regard to giving nasty stares at girls. Some aged men, without any shame on their part, look at girls that too girls of their daughter or even grand daughter's age. I feel it is a nasty sickness for them.
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Mar 10
I think if they can look at younger women, I can look at younger men. There's no harm in looking, right?
@SomeCowgirl (32266)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I think it is just a natural thing for some men and not all can control it or wish to. Some don't even realize they are doing it. As long as no harm is done, I see no foul.
@quita88 (3716)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Men never stop staring----and there is nothing you can do abouta dirty old man. But then men have always been trained to oooglle women and it shows a great lack of respect for the women.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
19 Mar 10
You've perfectly illustrated the difference between looking and leering. And there is a big difference! To answer your question, I'm going to pass on something my mom used to say to me: 'When your father gets too old to look, he'll be too old for me!' All of us enjoy seeing attractive people, and that certainly isn't limited to men. Women enjoy looking at attractive men, too!
@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I used to have a male friend that did this all the time. In fact having affairs with them too. But he also had a double standard. If the female was the oldest one he considered the female a hoe. Thats exactly what i think of a male that does that. He was 57 and she was 21. He sent me a picture of himself in bed with her. Thus our 14 year relationship ended and he can not understand why i dont want to talk to him. I suppose he figured i should have said "Congratulations, Derrick, you scored."
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
19 Mar 10
As long as they only stare then that is fine. It is when they forget that they can no longer always handle the sight that they are viewing in the way they handled it in the past that things become complicated
@commanderxo (1496)
• Canada
19 Mar 10
It may not be polite to stare, but isn't it nice to be at least admired? As long as there is nothing PHYSICALLY involved, I can see no harm. If it gets to the point of where any one of these guys starts stalking, THEN I have issue with it, and would advise any young lady to take proper precautions, plus any necessary steps to protect herself. Other than that, it's merely harmless imagination. cdrxo
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
19 Mar 10
tut tut.......its true that opposites attract and it appears there is no time frame or boundries for this phenomenon as far as men are concerned.Women are more discreet in such matters and are more down to earth and act their age,,,but men...are unfortunately not so....I dont know at what age men will ever stop and restrain themselves ...Perhaps its only when they realise that such action will not make them any younger or dearer to the opposites......
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Men are still men no matter what age they are..they really have a one great weakness and that is woman. So I guess they will never stop appreciating or admiring one..=)
@allknowing (70518)
• India
19 Mar 10
What has age got to do what the eyes behold? The eyes will look for beauty and that they will only find in young women. No one would want to look at an aged old lady nor would even a woman want to look at her. I find nothing wrong. Just because a man has grown in age why should that stop him from appreciating beauty and some would even go a bit further and would try to seek their friendship.
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
i think it is already the nature of men to act that way. i don't think age has something to do to change them. it will only be their maturity who will tell them how to react in situations like that.
@vandana7 (68473)
• India
19 Mar 10
Hi krupesh, there you go, there you go again! Coming up with all sorts of controversial stuff. :) First I cant answer for men. :) My looks have not been of the kind that would get me that kind of adulation, I dont know whether I should feel glad or sad about it. :) But men or women that I know now are so kind to me that I feel grateful for whatever type of looks I have. :)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 10
I think men will can never stop admiring other women, some say it is in the gene. My partner too still look at other girls but I learn not to feel jealous, I keep on reminding him if he do more than that I will do the same thing. He said it was nothing but we ladies need to be careful...