listening to songs makes me remember my first love...

Hi fianne, it is a common thing that some specific moment can make somebody remember what happened in the similar moment before, especially in the case of love. I also ever had the same situation like you. In the following years after I broke up with my girlfriend, I usually remembered her when I had been to some places that we ever played there together and listened some songs such as Lianxi of Andy's. In such situations, like you, I thought that I still loved her deeply, and tried to contact her. but when I really met her, I realized that our meeting was far away from my expectation, so I was usually depressed. According to your words, I feel that you are a very kind girl, and I am not sure if you still love him so much. however, I suggest that it is better for you to determine yourself under a regular/normal situation without any emotion. I think this will reflect your real feelings.

Every song I listen to sends me back into a flashback of somethign special. For example th song Im listening to now 'On My Own' by Hedley reminds me of all the time I spent on the bus going to middle school as I listened to it everymorning. The song just triggers memories. A first love is something that is held close to everyones hearts and is usually a tear jerker or heartwrentcher. I dont think that if you truly love someone you ever get over them, no matter how long. Youmay not be with them anymore, you may not like them anymore, and you may have moved on (and are happy) but true loves stay in your heart forever. Sometimes crying ove people (or things or just crying in general) is good for you and actually healthy as you let out feelings, motions, thoughts and stress. Its completely natural, dont feel bad or guuilty about loving him while you still love your boyfriend just remeber how happy you are no and that the love that matters most is the one you have right now as teh other one is in the past. Dont try to drag it back. Good luck and happy mylotting. :)

I am with my first Real love . It is new but I can understand how a song can take you back to a time and place. Before my guy I ThoughtI was in love. I Thought I had gotten over him until, I heard a song that I would sin about him and m heart sank. In that instant I missed him. I wasn't with my guy at the time so it realy hit me. They say you never get over your first love. Just think of that song as a fond memory and try to move on. Your current guy is good to you? You love him? Then it will be ok. And it is ok to still have felings for your first love. I know I will.

I feel the same way. Some songs just remind me of my first love its hard to forget him. I too love my current boyfriend to pieces. But I find myself dreaming and fantasizing about my ex all the time. I think its normal. Love is love no matter the distance. :)

Hey thats a good song I like it. But Yes, Music can bring back so many memories. And feelings. Sometimes never felt before. Music is GREAT.

Hello Fianne, Good memories. The 1st one/love will always be special no matter what; the fact that the song reminded you of him is a good thing. It means he was special to you and there's nothing wrong crying, I'm sure you're crying because the flash back makes you happy. A happy sensation kind of feel. (Just don't go talking to your current boyfriend about that and you're good.) I'm sure your boyfriend has those mini moments too where he remember his 1st love. I know sometimes a certain song comes up and it triggers me to remember something.

In once life one can never, never forget their first love if it is true how much you are well settled in life sometime or other it makes you remember your first love which is really painful and feeling that can't be said in words......It's a different experience...especially a girl can't a boy can move on mostly they take everything light and satisfy with what they are like and enjoy their lives mostly they forget but a girl if it's true love she never and can't in her life......But one should accept what ever the life gives us....that't the fate..thats it..all of them can't achieve their first love.....if achieved they are the happiest people...Good luck.

hi... yes that happens a lot... that is why sometimes, listening to music, esp love songs, brings back breaking memories...

I don't cry whenever I hear the songs that I have associated with my past relationships, particularly my first boyfriend, but I do have flashbacks about what happened before, about our relationship and how much I loved him. I think it will never really go away, I mean, until now I still think about what could have been, or what went wrong even though I'm with someone already. And my boyfriend and I actually talk about it, like the what ifs...

For me I don't feel it the worse because the time with him is in his world but now I get married not to mention about him already.

As far as i am concerned, I think it is so difficult for us to forget the first love ,which can be a love remembered with deep gratitude. I think most of us will not forget the love. They may just put it in the corner of our hearts, but still not forget.I will remember it by some other things that related to the first love ,just as the songs.

i too get that same feeling when ask songs especially melody songs which has some good lyrics. i've been in love with her for the past 6 years but we split now. but i still remember her. some times i just avoid listening to music for this reason anyhow its a good feeling sometime it may be painful.

yeah.. I believe it. sometimes it happens to me too. If I heard a song wherein a theme to a friend or a lover before, it really reminds me the feelings I had in that moment then.

hi friends ., i love music .. now this time also i am hearing that ., maximum i am hearing only melody songs .. at the same time it gives a lot of advantages for example it gives us a mind relaxation .. so i like music very much

Will there was a time that my ex boyfriend was preparing for his wedding and when the time that he really moved on his life, i felt so much pain inside me and i dont know why i felt like that, but i am also taken that time, still have a pain, Now when there's a time that the song connects to me and to my ex, i can still remember him but not that i still love him but there are some rejection why i am in a hurry in get married and not to be faithful to him in our time.

Sentimental and romantic songs always bring back memories of love. My problem is there are so many songs that bring back so many of these. Shame of me because I have more than one love. Honestly, I cannot remember how many times I have been hurt but then again its part of growing up I suppose. There are times I broke down and cried when a song is played but eventually shrugged it off. Life goes on...