Was there any thing in your life that you thought was the hardest to go through?
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
March 20, 2010 8:24pm CST
Have you ever had a period in your life...an episode..something happen
to you that was absolutely positively the hardest thing you have ever gone through?
Did you ever think it would go on forever?
I, myself, went through a terrible work experience.. and getting out of it
is something I never imagined would happen.. but God stepped in and pulled me
through..THere are alot of pieces laying around to be picked up yet.. but I am
doing the best I can..
What about you?
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5 responses
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
21 Mar 10
I think the hardest part of my life was when I was pregnant with my son. I went through a horrible custody battle over my daughter while I was pregnant and it was very stressful and emotional.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Divorce and separation are never easy things to go through. When children
are involved, determining who get the children is not easy. Did you win the
custody battle? How is your son doing now.? How did you cope with the stress
at that time?
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@pengbubu (1011)
• China
21 Mar 10
Yes, I had. Two years ago, I went through a very serious surgery and I thought I am going to die. Fortunately I am still alive. It's the hardest period ever in my life. I still can't believe in what happened. It really is a nightmare.
Have a good day, Littlefranciscan.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
21 Mar 10
How long did you stay in the hospitl for this surgery.
Did you suffer much in pain after the surgery?
I am so glad that you are feelng better now.
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Hey hello there Joy!! long time no see!! its been soo long since i have been on here..and your thread in my email is what got me here..Right now is the hardest thing for me..though a cpl yrs ago when i was dying because of my ex was right up here too..but my b/f..2 weeks ago he shot himself and now hes gone..life has been so hard for me..i think its harder now than when i wa sso sick because i was so lathargic i dont rememeber a yr of my life..which i guess i can thank God for that..but now..i think hes testing my strength and will..Miah was everything to me..he was my best friend..soul mate..and even made me laugh when no one else could..now i dont have that in my life anymore and i think i took advantage of what i had i guess..and that ol sayin " you dont knwo what you got......well its true..i know there is nothing to worry about..i know what the other side look slike..and i know hes at peace with himself now..but now im not..i needed him..always did ..i have distnaced myself from everyone..and i knwo im not supposed to..i just guess deep down if i dont have anyone close..this hurt wont happen again..but i know thats silly too..im just sad..angry..Pi$$ed off and want to scream..but all i can do is cry..i know i need to heal and things will get better..but right now..i cant..and nothing anyone says is helping me..so ya..this is me..worst time of my life:(
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Hi..and sorry that you are going through such a terribly hard time right now.
I know how you feel in one way: someone I cared for. helped take care of
ended his life. He was elderly though and advanced in years; but, that doesn't
make it easier.
It's ok to distance yourself a tad to come to grips with what has happened. and
crying is our own body's way of handling the trauma thrown at it's emotional side.
I have my own terrible thing to go through and would rather be left alone at times
too to deal with it; but I realize that doing this is leaving me prey to my
own thoughts which are wounded thoughts that unable to to bring me peace.
Sometimes we need a hug from another, the soft words of another, the "I understand"
of others to get the healing process started.
Have you sought out counseling of any sort? Talking it out with someone else
is really good for you. Realizing you are not responsible for your b/f aactions
is important. Knowing that you will be alright is part of the progress.
You will be alright .. God knows how you feel.. He really does.. He lost someone
He truly loves too.
I am here for you ..say what you need..it's all healing. Let your feelings out
and let the healing in..Am with you.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Yeah, when hubby left us it was pretty tough. I'm still picking up pieces eight years later. But, it's wonderful when God steps in. We do what we can and He just does the rest. 
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
right now the hardest things for me is being pregnant without a father of my baby coz he left us. though i just wish to have a successful delivery without any complication for me and for my baby. and i hope that everything will doing fine. i dont know yet of how to be a single mother as i know its the hardest part of life but i just hope i can still take care of my baby and hope to find someone good enough for me someday.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Try hard to focus on that little bundle of life that is so much a part of you
and that is waiting to come out as soon as it is time. Don't let that man's leaving
keep you from giving to your baby inside all it needs to have.
Emotions and stress and all the outer environment will affect your little baby
inside and so it's so important that you find a way to move on wthout the baby's
father if need be: for the baby's sake.
You might want to see out a support group for unwed mothers. Do you know anyone
else who is single with children or who are expecting. I am sure you will
make it. Know that that baby will be the best source of happiness for you.
Don't let the selfishness of that man keep you from giving all you can to your
baby and that starts now...You need to take care of your health physically and
emotionally and psychologically to give that baby all he/ she needs.
