Do you feel some time that your friends are not really your friend

@1anurag1 (3581)
India
March 22, 2010 3:22pm CST
there are different colors of life and we see every color. friends are one of the most beautiful colors of life. but some time when there is a black out in our life we just look for those colors to fill those black but we find no color. i think you could get my mean. do you have such experience.
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@tonyllenium (6267)
• Italy
22 Mar 10
It is not so easy to find or even understand that an external person is a real friend for you!!I think in the majority of cases they know you just because may be you are living near or you work in the same company or doing soem job..naturally to discover or understand if this person is a real friend you neeed to knwo better him/her and also try to understand their attitudes,behaviour and so on..
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@1anurag1 (3581)
• India
23 Mar 10
Thanks for the precious response i agree with you but i think could not be very suspicious before making some one your friend.
• Germany
22 Mar 10
I had once a friend, called her my best friend. We have been friends for a decade and we had so many nice memorable moments together that i was convinced to call her my best friend. Then time came when she transferred to a sister company from the hotel where we both worked. Some months later, a friend ( a co-worker ) told me not to say & trust everything to my best friend because, according to her, my best friend is talking behind my back. She has heard it. I gathered infos and knew... that i am losing my once best friend.
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@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
23 Mar 10
yeah been there too. but with me when this happen i just count it as a waste of time for real. then i dont go out of my way to talk to them, or if i need too i will confront them right off. but i am one of those person oh well screw it i dont need them
@vandana7 (57493)
• India
23 Mar 10
Hi anurag, I dont expect my friends to be perfect, because I am not. When I am an problems, if they stand by me, then they are good friends. If they dont, then may be they do have a valid reason. If and only when they dont have any valid reason do they get demoted. Demotion means indifference in my vocabulary.
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
23 Mar 10
Yes sometimes i feel when they don't want to help me.. when i needed.. then i thinks they are not my really friend.. because a true friends is a person.. who will help you without any expectation.. and always with you in your bad time.. and you needed really help.. so they are your really friends who helped you always.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..