Jealousy

@allknowing (130088)
India
March 22, 2010 10:03pm CST
How do you control your jealousy. Now don't say you are not jealous - all of us are but it can be contained atleast I do by counting my blessings. How do you do it?
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• Malaysia
23 Mar 10
everyone is jealous of their loved ones and possession for example. i for one am jealous. its alright for my husband to talk to women friends but cannot go out with her or them alone.there must be someone with them but preferably dont do it at all. its the best policy and do the 'keep off'. i get real annoyed and angry. my husband in my 'own' man and thus its my inner feelings, responsibilites, duties as a wife to guard him closely and watch over him jealously. its a good and to me the only logical and common sense way to protect and covers my marriage and family. how else. the world is full of temptations and man ( including woman) by nature are flirtatious and polygamous as one thing leads to another in our weaknesses. that is why we have the sacred institution of marriage ordained by God. so no way, am i going to slack in my responsibility and let my husband falls into traps. he knows his stand and my stand and my family stands.he guards me jealously too, which is the way it should be. so we know the perimeters we are working and the limits. we must realise that we are no heroes or heroine and that we are strong and wont fall. be realistic. so jealousy is good in marriage and family life. even my GOD is a jealous GOD as He does not want us to worship other gods. he is possessive and jealous over us for our own good.that is my own view.
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• United States
23 Mar 10
hey there allknowing:( I really honestly dont get jelous..i will though say the only time i have felt it was when i caught my boyfriend..well ex now,cheating on me,,i was hurt,,pi$$ed off and really jelous which is a strange emotion for that time frame lol..anywho i think its a huge turn on and sexy as hell when other women look at my man..i just think,.,."thats right ladies,you can look at my menu but you cant order from it." lol..but im really ok with others looking..makes me hotter for him:) (though single now and sucks lol)
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
human as we are jealousy is an inevitable emotion. i actually just went through the browsing history and i saw that my partner searched for his x-girlfriends profiles on the web and i must admit i am jealous but i have to control my feelings and not let it get the best of me. looking at those profiles may not necessarily mean that he wants them back. so one must think maturely and be open-minded.
@burrito88 (2774)
• United States
23 Mar 10
I used to be jealous when it came to relationships. It's hard to stop feeling that way. I realized later that if I tried to drive other guys away from the girl I liked, it was unfair to the girl. Plus I would be better off finding out if she was more into to somebody else sooner than later. One of my last bits of jealousy happened a few years back. Again it was over a woman and another guy she knew. I almost quit the relationship then but decide that having a part of her was better that not having anything at all. The other guy eventually drped out of the picture and although the relationship still isn't totally what I'd like,I'm still involved with her.
@hompage (76)
• India
23 Mar 10
There is no need to be Jealousy.Every one in this universe is coming from the GOD.So every one is equal and everyone have equal right in this universe.We all are soul not body.So there is no need to be Jealousy because you and your neighbor are same and equal.The one who have Jealousy to others will never make success in life.So get read of it.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
i don t deal with jealousy very well. i can contain it but i ll feel frustrated afterwards. i punched a guy one time for hugging my girl. turned out he was a gay friend. lol. i apologized afterwards.