Do you find your friends treat you not as well as you treat them?
March 23, 2010 1:16am CST
I used to have some good friends, but when I found them treat me not as well as I treat them, I was upset, and now, I find the only people treat me well enough are my parents and my husband. I had several female friends before, when we were all in school, we got along well with each other, but when we left school or college, if I didn't contact them forwardly, they never paid attention to me. I think it is not the reason that they are busy, I am busy too. When they need some help, I tried to do a favor, but they never asked whether I was upset or needed any help. So now, I stop contacting with them, because I don't think they know what friend is. Did you have the same experience before? Will you give up such friendship?
23 Mar 10
Don t expect too much. i bet they re not even thinking about how you feel not bcuz they don t care but bcuz they have their own problems. you have your own problems so don t add this frustration to your problems. keep on contacting them. if ever they needed help, ask yourself what you prioritize first, if you can help them then do it. if you have your family or job in the way then turn them down. you won t lose them if they really are your friends.