*waiting*........is so bored,did every one love to wait?.....

Japan
March 23, 2010 7:07pm CST
I hate to wait....is the worse thing i really don`t like about waiting.my friend is most Japanese because i stay in Japan now and some of them often call me by phone ad say i want to go to your place 9 a clock then i rust cleaning the house and prepare all thing but they show up 3 hours later,or they say we go some where at 10 a`clock i am ready before the time but they pick me up 2 hours later without reason,and in the night one friend call said tomorrow we all go shopping after lunch and do this and that then today they call me again cancel the plan so...i decide my self if they late 15 minute then the time they were promises i ll call them and say sorry i can`t go or when they call me i said if not in time i am pass how about you my dear friend did you love to wait?tell me may be i am right or may be i should love to wait,
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8 responses
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
no one loves to wait.. xcept for monks maybe.. but you re taking things too seriously. if they said they re going to come at a specific time then be it. you re at home. just relax. do whatever you usually do at home. watch tv, play video games, play some music, smoke some weeds,etc.. lol. im kidding with the weeds..
• Japan
24 Mar 10
i like to serve people,make surprise make them happy like prepare food,game to play for their children,and even delay my other activity :)
• United States
24 Mar 10
I usually keep myself occupied in some of those ways and it helps to pass the time while waiting and before I know it, the person is ready to hang out and come over. Patience is a virtue. :P
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
D@mn right. exactly my point.
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I hate waiting! I mean, that is why we planned in the first place, so that nobody would have to wait and we'll both be ready at that particular time. I really hate people who always arrive late, specially those who doesn't even seem to care, and doesn't seem to realize the effort of the other party to get ready in time and then they'll just make you wait for hours. argh.
• Japan
25 Mar 10
:)i agree of that you think i really hate to wait no matter who or what:)
• United States
24 Mar 10
I hate waiting too, but I admit that sometimes I am the person someone is waiting on. It's a very bad habit and doesn't help your friends with having confidence in you. I'm more of a last minute type of person lol. Learn who the friends are that are never on time and just keep the mindset that they won't be around the time they said they would so you're not disappointed. As previously stated, keep yourself occupied so the time will fly and so if they happen to be late you won't even notice it since you were busy entertaining yourself. It's hard to be patient, but give it a shot. I'm still working on it myself and it's not easy. Have a wonderful day. :)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
try to be little bit passion:)thanks
• United States
24 Mar 10
waiting is hard for everyone, you really have to develop patience, it doesnt come naturally. i think the best thing to do while waiting is find some way to distract yourself with some other kind of activity, like listening to music or reading a book or calling someone to talk. always have something to do!
• Japan
25 Mar 10
You were right by busy myself may be don`t feel that been waiting:)thanks
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Me too I hate to wait but sometimes we need to do this things. When there are times that i almost got asleep in waiting, hungry and really bored. I need to be patient in waiting because after these the success will follow.
• Japan
25 Mar 10
that good if you waiting for something that are you sure make yourself feeling nice and success i don`t mind to wait if the rest better thing follow it :)
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I hate to wait too. I not able to wait more than half hour, in fifty minute I already anxious and thinking to leave. If I go with friend and they tend to late, I will make sure they on the way before I leave my home. So I will not waiting for them.
• Japan
24 Mar 10
good idea:)or may be we need to make them wait for us so they know how bored waiting is:)thank you
• Germany
24 Mar 10
Waiting for hours is totally absurd. I hate waiting, i think nobody likes to. For me, it is a waste of time. Good thing you are to wait in your home! This is better place than you wait outside or in some other place. At least at home, you can do other things (house chores or alike) while you are waiting. But if i were to wait for more than an hour, i will probably cancell the date. Yeah! Do it the next time! It is good that your friends will also learn the lesson and that they will know you are one who do not like to wait for hours. 15 minutes late is excussable.
• Japan
24 Mar 10
i ll try to more passion waiting may in 30 minute from now on more than that no way:)thank you for advise
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I hate to wait too. I not able to wait more than half hour, in fifty minute I already anxious and thinking to leave. If I go with friend and they tend to late, I will make sure they on the way before I leave my home. So I will not waiting for them.