why she never understand

@adhyz82 (36289)
Indonesia
March 23, 2010 10:12pm CST
why she never understand me? why she never think that iam so seriously with her? why she think that my feeling is not really true? whats i can do to make her heart open to me? sometimes i feel frustrating, boring, angry, jealous and etc. sometimes it make me never focus to do other activities, only to think why she do like that to me? any solutions for me. thanks
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@phoenix8606 (4978)
24 Mar 10
hell0! well, may you should try to show her how much do you exactly love her, maybe she thinks that you don't love her, because you don't do something that she thinks it is important. try to talk to her and see what she really needs to feel loved!
• Romania
24 Mar 10
That's some bs, young girls wanna have fun, fu and bbye, no feelings no drama, no bs like in the movies, I have experience with many bit** you can't question it, believe it
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
phoenix, i had try it many times.i always show that i really love her, i want to protect her and give my life to guard her.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
sometimes women asking that just for a secure position. they need to be said so they feel safe. why don't you say what she asked? i guess it would make her happy. women usually more confident if their partner said those things rather than you acted it or prove it.maybe it is sound silly, but that is woman..
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
hai ifa,i read carefully what you say but trust me i always do like that to her. i always say i love her, i want to marry with her but sometimes she is doubt with me. i dont know why. whats the point in your say, the women need and want to feel safe?
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
Yeah, i often ask that too to my husband, i just feel safe if i knew i am the only one in his heart, and i want it to be said by him. even he had thousand times told me that he loved me. I just love to hear that and make feel safe and sure that he will not have an affair with another woman. I used to say this when i feel down or jealous if he close to his office's friend.
@missybear (11396)
• United States
24 Mar 10
I'm not sure who you talking about? Is "She" a co-worker or a friend or your girlfriend? Maybe she's just not interested in you, it happens and you should then move on. Good Luck
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
i can say that we had ever talking too seriously about marriage.
@advokatku (4039)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
one key to understanding women, we must realize that they are "different creature", that is, different in the way she thought from male, different in hormonal and of course physically different. His Emotions as well, which flowed from his body clearly is not the same. so in this case, you must be patient ... remember, patient is one way to easily understand her desire. Once time you can understand desire a women, then you would be more acceptable and establish communication and relationships with a women.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
ya, i know that womeen always had a great feeling, but sometimes i always tired to understand whats she want but sometimes she never understand me. sometimes it make me tired,easily get anger etc. sometimes i always to invite her to chit chat to clarify that our problems but she always refuse
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
24 Mar 10
its hard to convince some people. no matter how truthful and honest ur they still wont accept it. They are born that way. they have their own mindset and way of thinking that they alwys think and look at others with suspicion.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
hai preethanju, ya i know it`s hard to make someone else understand what we want to. maybe because we are not same in get education from our parents and different culture. hai jonjee, thanks for your support
@paula27661 (15900)
• Australia
26 Mar 10
The one thing to do is what many men do not enjoy and that is to talk about it. The only thing to do, aside from walking away without a word, is to have a chat and explain to her that her behaviour is hurtful to you and that you do not want to put up with it anymore. Tell her once more how you feel about her and what you want and if she doesn’t give you anything in return you may have to consider walking away and hopefully meeting another girl who loves you as you deserve.
• Romania
24 Mar 10
I thin you should stfu with the feelings and bs, I learned that on my own, girls aren't in for the drama, just wanna have fun, don't be an noob, PEACE !
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Mar 10
Hi Adhyz, Are you courting her and you want her to be your girlfriend? maybe what you are doing is not yet enough to win her heart. now if you think you exhausted everything and the response is the same then maybe she's not the right one for you. but if you see some hopes in her then pursue and fight for her.
• India
24 Mar 10
Hye Adhyz82!.......!!!First of all I could not get What you actually mean to say!But Your whole sentence gave me two type of Problems.First She is your Friend and you propose Her But She could not understand your Feeling that you Love Her and She taking your Feeling lightly.The second case is might be that She is your Girl Friend and not giving Damn to your Feelings which makes you ,Frustrating and Jealous. In these Both case the Solution is the same you Should make her Realize Her that you're the one who can make her life Full with Enjoy and Happiness.Without you no one can make her life Enjoyable and Loving.this can sometime comes through make her Feel Jealous,e.g. talking happily with another Girl who might be her Friend too,making some days gaps by going away from Her and Her Life not even contact Her.By this you can contact with some of her Friend and ask How she was Feeling?This is the Best way to understand and to know "How much she loves and takes care of you?".Lastly Then you can Share your all Problems and Disheartness which you Felt during Your Relationship and Complement the good moments and things happens when you with Her,By this way you will Slowly and Gradually comes near to each other's Heart. My Friend!!There are so many Questions which two Persons in love with each other can't find it even it is so simple so you need there a good and Honest Friend to gave you Best and Appropriate Suggestions whom you can Trust!So That I tried to Do for yoy.Hopes Definately these Solutions will works for you and your Relationship to make more Strong Bond. Wishing you a very Happy Loving Life!