Why we have to make tough decisions all the time in life?

@sutent (1061)
China
March 24, 2010 7:46am CST
Dear friends, long time no see. In the past month, i was not active on mylot. I have to carm down myself to make good decision for myself. Currently, I work in other city than my local city. But my GF work in home city and additionally I have a house in my home city. My family and my GF want me to go back. And actually it is easy for to go back and work in home city, as I need not to buy a new house in current working city. But in current city, i have more working opportunity than my home city. Actually I just transferred from my local city to this city for the good working opportunity and I donot want to go back. But it would be good choice or easy living for me to go back. Besides, the pressure from my family and GF also take part role in that. I have to make this tough decision again, although i had did it two years ago, when i decide to trandferred from my home city to the city. Share you with my dilemma. Best Regards,
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@phoenix8606 (4978)
24 Mar 10
hi! maybe because this s actually the life itself- making tough decisions and being independent, because taking these tough decisions actually help us to realize that life is not only a consecution of happy moments and love, life is also sadness and tough moments, when we must take tough decisions. and maybe that's why we love the life the way it actually is!
@sutent (1061)
• China
24 Mar 10
Hi phoenix, I fully agree that life is not only happly moments, but also sadness and tough moments, which actually make us grow up. Have a good day.
• China
24 Mar 10
Hi Sutent . A lot of people face the same problem like you ,me too . One of my friend said to me ,before you making a significant decision (like your situation),you should know that what's the important things in your life and what are your main goals.love ,easy life ,money or selfaccomplish,etc?