Would you still marry the one you love even if you know that he/she is dying?

@khaezi (1003)
Philippines
March 24, 2010 2:13pm CST
Absolutely Yes! I would marry him!..I remember, me and my boyfriend had a talk and this topic came up..I asked him if he would still marry me even though I'm dying and he directly answered me with yes! I'm so happy that time-I know for myself that I would say yes as well..=) I may sound crazy but I don't care what would be the scenario after his death..but all I really want is to be with him and love him until that time comes..=) Would you still marry him? her? why and why not..=)
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16 responses
• United States
24 Mar 10
Absolutely. You don't fall out of love with someone simply because they have problems...either health, social, etc. If you do, then heck, you weren't in love in the first place. My boyfriend has Juvenile (Type 1) Diabetes, and I know that can lead to many health complications as he gets older...but I am optimistic. And I love him.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I strongly agree!!! I you really love him you tend to be with him and stay in love him at his worst..=) Wow I believe that you love him unconditionally..I know he'll be better for sure!..Good luck to both of you and God Bless =) Thanks for that wonderful story..=)
• United States
25 Mar 10
Thanks for commenting :) We're actually each others first long relationship...we've been together for 9 months now. His is truly an amazing person, and I think that there must be a reason why we were attracted to each other. It was meant to be. Life will always throw complications at a relationship, and in a way, I'm lucky to already know what our complication will be.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Wow that's good!..you truly are meant to be I agree with that..actually you will feel that "something" when he is truly the one for you-it's quite unexplainable but for sure you will feel that magic =) Just be strong for each other..God will guide you don't worry..=)
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
without any hesitation and without any thinking to be needed i would say absolutely yes to marry him. i want to be with him to give all the best that i can do to make him happy for the last days of his life. i will pamper him with love with every second that he breath.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
Yeah his every breath counts..it's like a total countdown whew..a love so strong cannot be destroyed by any tragic ending..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
@pratheep87 (1228)
• India
27 Mar 10
Yes i would marry her. When i hear this news the next mins i will mary her and start our life. Your asking why that's because of a single word LOVE.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Yeah I strongly agree! There's no such thing as powerful as LOVE..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• Vietnam
25 Mar 10
Absolutely Yes!I will do that.I can't image a life without the one I love
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Yes me too I can't imagine living without him..hope that it will not happen to both of us or any lovers out there..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• United States
25 Mar 10
i can't really imagine such a scenario myself at this time, as i'm married and my wife isn't dying, but i do know of a similar story. there is a guy named Jeremy Camp who is a semi famous christian music singer who got married to someone with cancer and she ended up dying. he pretty much knew it was going to happen but he loved her and now he's remarried so it all worked out and they got to love each other until it was her time to go.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Oh I feel sorry for him..but admire him for doing that..that kind of person can love unconditionally, lucky is the girl whom he'd love fell in love with right now I should say..=) God Bless you and your family..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• China
25 Mar 10
I am not quite sure whether I will marry him or not, but one point I know is that I will never stop my love to him just because of the illness or other troubles.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Marrying someone is really a big decision..I understand your being confused..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
absolutely yes! i will marry him because i love him and i want him to be happy to..marriage is a wonderful thing in our life..i'll marry him and even his dying but i know our will last forever though he's so far from with but he still in my mind and heart..and i will never leave him alone.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Yeah marrying him is the greatest gift you could give him..and loving him forever is the priceless gift you could give yourself..=) Thanks for sharing =)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
yes.. I would marry the one i love even if he's dying simply because he's the one who made my life happy :). I'll love him no matter what happen.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Yeah love him even if everything is hopeless..as long as both of you are happy- you and your love against the world..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
@l33tgirl (289)
• New Zealand
25 Mar 10
It depends. If I had met him when he was healthy and then he got sick then yes I would stay with him. If I met a sick person now I wouldn't date them. It's just a recipe for a broken heart and if I could avoid it I would.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Lol..yeah I see your point =) That would be a wise decision though =) Thanks for sharing..=)
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I think I would really marry that guy. It doesn't mean that I'm obligated to marry him because his dying. I'm marrying the man I love and there's nothing wrong with it. Question: What's the use he's going to die....? I would really answer, why not? I want to be with him in the last days of his life and be a very good wife to him.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
You are right and the idea of being his wife even for a short period of time is priceless..I would keep that memory as long as I live..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• India
25 Mar 10
it will really a typical decision. i think it 'll be very good situation when someone face directly. currently i think it is the matter of love. how deeply it is and how much both love each others. if they really so, they will do it to make happy the opponent.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
If the love is true and deep there will be no hesitation..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
when love is real you can say yes when love isn't real you can say frankly no.in my opinion if il be in that situation and i love the person im sure i say yes even it is painful to hear that he cant stay for long for me i still say yes so that he feel happy eventhough his dying he still experience the love and care i given though its just so short.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Yeah what really matter is how deep your love is with that short period of time..=) Thanks for sharing..=)
• United States
24 Mar 10
Yes, there is not a doubt in my mind. None of us are assured that we will live to be a certain age. We never know when we will die. If you love someone, there is no reason that you shouldn't marry them. Yes, you may not have a lot of time together, but them knowing that you truly love them and really want to be with them could give them a great deal of support and faith to get through the things that are going on. I cannot imagine dying alone or not having someone that I love by my side. By the same token, I would want to be beside the love of my life in their time of need and no matter what.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Yeah I know that and it is so sad to think that whether we like it or not we need to say goodbye when that time comes..Loving then til the end is the least we can do to make them happy..=) Thanks for sharing =)
@adaox1 (65)
• Belgium
24 Mar 10
depends on some more factors, if i know she is really fantastic and i'd make her happy by marrying then ofcourse i would. if i'm not sure she is worth all this hassle then i would not i guess.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yeah I get it..it depends when you really really love her..I agree=) Thanks for sharing..=)
24 Mar 10
Yes I would, infact it would probably make my passion to want to marry him even stronger. Life is too short as it is, so if I'd have ever been in that kind of scenario I wouldn't even need to think about it.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yeah life is so short..so when you love give your everything..true love comes only once in a lifetime..=) Thanks for sharing =)
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Mar 10
Is he rich? Well, I'm just kidding. And the answer is, I might. I'm older and married with children and I come with a lot of baggage, and I think when I was younger I probably would simply have said yes. Now I tend to factor more practical things into my decisions. But let's pretend I'm single and in this situation. If he would still want to be married, then I would do it.
@khaezi (1003)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Lol =) No he's guy a simple guy..=) Yeah I understand that it would be very much different when there are other things to consider like kids and other responsibilities..you just tend to weigh the pros and cons not just for yourself but also for them =) Thanks for sharing =)