Can you keep your boyfriend/girlfriend waiting?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
March 25, 2010 11:43am CST
Let's say there's a misunderstanding happened, and it was been his/her fault. But what he/she has done was not really a big mistake. You just decided to stop talking to him/her temporarily because there's a feeling of grouch in you. He/she explained to you what really happened and he/she keep on apologizing and telling you that what he/she has did was really not intended. Then you just said let's just talk tomorrow, i'll be sleeping now. But he/she just kept on explaining and apologizing. Pleading for you to talk with him/her and fix that problem that night and don't let the day passed without reconciliation. He/she said that he/she will be very lonely and he/she will keep on thinking and he/she cannot be able to sleep. What are you going to do, would you just let your boyfriend/girlfriend waiting and just talk to him/her tomorrow or you are going to talk to him/her that night and try to fix the problem? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
8 responses
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
25 Mar 10
One has learned in life, never go to bed angry, sad or dissappointed. I would rather sort out the problem or misunderstanding. It means a lot to some, to just get it over with and go on with which ever relationship it is. You never know what could happen the next day, so do it now. TATA.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Hi saph! I agree with you. If you can do or solve it now, then better not wait for tomorrow. It is not good to prolong the quarrel or misunderstanding, because it has the possibility to get worse. Especially if the problem is really not that huge. We love the person, and he/she was pleading with us, I don't think we can't really resist him/her. Yes, we better not go to bed with a negative feelings, we may find it harder to sleep or we will might have a bad dreams. Thank you for your response saph! Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
26 Mar 10
I know sweetie. As long as both of you are happy and resolved it, i am happy. TATA.
@tilldawn (64)
26 Mar 10
If you think its not really a big mistake then talk with her/him settle the problem and don't wait until tomorrow,partners and couple must not go to bed with unsettled arguments,explain to her/him about your side if she/he really care about you then she/he will understand!Good luck!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Hi tilldawn! Yes, I'm sure that she really cares for me that's why she cannot resist me and she has forgiven me. I understand what she felt, she was just been worried, but I already apologized and explained to her what really happened and she understood me. Yes, it's better not to wait another day before you talk about it. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@marianna45 (1400)
• Romania
28 Mar 10
In my opinion, in a relationship there must be communication, trust, and patience. If all this do not exist, nothing exists. Games of love, ambition, stubbornness, not lead to anything good, I know someone who has hurt so bad a friend of mine, she is still not healed.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
if that happened i never let my partner to wait for another day just to talk about our misunderstandings. i want it to talk as soon as possible.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
26 Mar 10
Well, this use to happen in our love life. And she asks me always as she is so sensitive and am bit stubborn. But it lasts for few minutes or maximum of 1 hour. After that i will slowly get down from my temper. She is so sweet as she is the first to accept and ask sorry and she will never sleep unless i talk to her normally. And so as me cannot go sleep without spending and talking with her.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
with my relationship right now, we definitely talk to finish the argument.. but of course i will definitely explained how i feel.. and also thing to be done. so it won't happened anymore.. because if i wait.. you just make things complicated.. because maybe the next day instead of fixing the problem-- it end up because sometime we tend to forget that we have egos and pride.. we tend to decide its to much.. then end up nothing... if there is problem then fix it right away.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Things like this should be talked over and finished before going to bed. The only times you shouldn't be able to talk to that person is if you're physically very very tired and can't do anything anymore. That would be the only time you don't talk to the person and fix the problem. It's not nice having to wake up the next day knowing that things are not okay with your partner. Everyone is entitled to make mistakes. And everyone deserves a second chance. So if it's not a big mistake, get it over and done with. If this is someone you really love, fix the problem with them and move on.
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I am a very sensitive person and I get upset if there something that was done that I dont like. My husband doesnt like that I always experience going to bed crying cause he doesnt want to talk about it. It makes me even sadder when I would have to sleep upset. I dont want that and my husband knows I cant sleep at all if the situation is like that but I dont understand why its always like that. I hope that this would have to change. Its not that I hate my husband for not doing something about it, its just that I really hate the situation cause I have it over and over again.