Do you know how to flirt?

@wigima5 (908)
United States
March 26, 2010 9:34pm CST
I havee NO idea how to flirt. haha. for some people it just comes naturally. But I can't even talk to most guys. I'm slightly starting to feel a bit braver, and I want to flirt sometimes. But I still haven't actually flirted with anyone. I think maybe I need to practice flirting with some random ppl first. ;P idk. Do you know how to flirt? Did it come naturally or did you need practice? Do you like flirting?
4 responses
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
3 Apr 10
Typically I try and avoid flirting. My goal is to be friendly. Just act like a friend. Be the kind of person, that you would want others to be. So I meet someone, anyone, I treat them nice, and talk about whatever. Because that is how I like to be treated when someone talks to me. Real simple stuff. The reason I avoid flirting, is because it seems fake. You tell people things, you don't really believe, just to be flirty. Oh you are beautiful babe! Just stunning, just awesome! Just fake as can be. Instead, be real. If you don't think that, don't say that. If I see a cute girl, I say I see a cute girl. That's all. I guess I think you are better off flirting with someone, only after you found someone worth flirting with. You should flirty with your wife, or in your case, your husband. You should flirt maybe with someone you have determine you'll marry (if he asks). But I would never flirt randomly, or with people I am not yet interested in marrying. It's like your toying with them. ANd you can attract people what will cause you problems. It's happened to me, that's why I don't flirt anymore.
@wigima5 (908)
• United States
29 Apr 10
yea, i get SO annoyed with those stupid girls in school tat all they do with their guy friends is flirt. This one kid who usually is surrounded by those girls, started trying 2 be all flirty with me and my friend. And boy was he surprised tat we are soo not like tat. haha. weve been giving him such a hard time, insulting him, ignoring his stupid flirting, and sooo not flirting back. i think it may have just hurt his ego. :P
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Well honestly, most guys are insecure. Flirting makes them feel more confident in themselves, even if it's fake. I to be truthful, some guys really don't know how to talk to girls.
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
29 Apr 10
*and* to be truthful. oops.
@khyle6 (20)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Flirting, i think is very natural to women. maybe you did not notice it at the time.. even talking to a guy can be a form of flirting as long as you pay attention to what he is saying and respond appropriately..maybe you could tease him a bit too.. haha
@wigima5 (908)
• United States
29 Apr 10
yea...haha. i was chatting with this one guy friend of mine on facebook. n i sent the convo to my friends and they were like wow! U were totally flirting back!" n im like wat? really?? :P haha
• China
27 Mar 10
Hi,wigi,I don't know 2,so I want to look other's opinions.I think I don't like flirting,bcz if I like flirting I would have master the skill of flirting .Have a nice day.
@khyle6 (20)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
flirting is natural to all, especially to us women. it is unnoticeable unless you have every intention of visually flirting. =D a simple body language means a lot in flirting with a lot of eye contact.. =)