Do we take our partners for granted or its their way!!?

For me, the most hard part in life is when the situation comes when our partner had relayed themselves as taken for granted. Either it was intentional or not, for such reasons that we cannot comprehend on things about life changes. When you love someone, taking your partner for granted is the most sensitive thing you are about in and the best deal about the problem is let your partner freely share and be informed about your feelings. This will ease the pain on both and manage to improve the relationship well and understand things that only both of you can work things for a better and happy relationship.

Did you mean getting even? When I feel I am being taken for granted -- I lax off. I figured that the only way my wife would feel or realize that there's something wrong is by showing her and treating her the way she was treating me. I tried so many times to talk to her and tell her -- but if it's not coming around then I believe the ball should be dribbled and dunked. Cheers!

Well just treat them sincerly and always spare a thought for them yea .