why is he staring at me? i'm thinking.. perhaps, what?

Philippines
March 29, 2010 8:23am CST
I was waiting for a ride to get to work this afternoon then there was this guy who was looking at me. It took a couple of seconds. and i think he was not looking but staring at me now.. why was he staring at me? perhaps, i have some dirt on my face? perhaps, I look pretty for him? LOL!! or perhaps, he likes my skirt? Geezz.. I didn't know exactly. But I wanted to feel good so I was just thinking positively. Do you sometimes experience this? someone is staring at you? What was your thought? what's the first thought that comes into your mind?
13 responses
• China
30 Mar 10
A) he thought you are attractive, but he doesn't know you so it won't go anywhere. B) he thought you look familiar, but he couldn't think of your name, so he just stared awkwardly. C) he is a wierdo thinking something no one else could guess. D) he was spacing out and didn't realize he was looking at you.
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@Sir_bobby88 (8244)
• Singapore
29 Mar 10
Well perhaps he had fallen for you yea laugh out loud.
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@kharlav (1672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
If he was smiling and looking happy looking at you then I believe he was staring at you because you looked so pretty and sexy. He really likes you and maybe felt love at first sight. But if not, if he was looking at you in a weird and curious way, then maybe there was something on your face or there was something wrong with the way you dress... But i doubt that he was looking at you for that reason because I think that your a pretty girl. Yeap, i have experienced being stared at. I've experienced being stared at a guys and girls. If the one staring at me was a girl, i would probably be a little bit pissed off because i know that eh girl was backbiting me behind her thoughts. I believe no girl stares at another girl unless she is backbiting her. If the person staring at me was a guy, i would check myself out first, if i had something on my face or there was something wrong with my hair or how i looked. If I looked fine and the guy was cute, i would smile; if not, i would just walk away. Lol.
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
LOL!! yeah, i agree with you.
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Although he stares, its not enough reason to say that he does like the woman. Often times when men are stressed they look at the most beautiful they can see even when they haven't felt anything to that person. People these days are very sick.
@elamel (127)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
if i caught someone starring at me i guess i look pretty.. lol one time it really happened to me. the guy is really starring at me as if he wants to say something that cant spill out from his mouth.and suddenly i realized gosh my skirt zipper is open. lol this is really an embarrassing moment.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Maybe the guy likes you, as you can see this gesture was commonly the start of the good relationship between two individuals. If you like him too, then goodluck for budding romance that starts with you guys!
@mjcookie (2274)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
That happens to me often. People stare for different reasons. Maybe they are blown away by your beauty, they are pissed off by you, they are watching what you do, they just wanna stare for no reason at all, or they want to measure you. Or they're simply staring at you by mistake.
@myzire72 (1157)
• Singapore
30 Mar 10
If you are a pretty girl, it should come as no surprise to you to get stares from guys. You know, guys just love to look at pretty girls, so you really can't blame them. Anyway, if you don't like the look or stare, you can just ignore it or walk away. If you are daring enough, you might want to return him an unfriendly stare. That should stop his staring.
@cupkitties (7441)
• United States
30 Mar 10
My first thought is "Okay buddy you can quit looking at me now". Being stared at is always unsettling to me even if they're doing it for a complimentary reason. I always want to quickly get away from them.
@dimple27 (31)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
it depends upon his expression on his face.. if he smiled..then maybe he likes you.. if his expression is somewhat kind of "want to laugh" maybe he saw a dirt on your face just like what you said.. if he's staring at you like as if he's praising you..maybe he's thinking that you're sexy.. it depends.. :)
@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Mar 10
tess__quinain oh yes I have been stared at so many times when I used to eat in my favorite restaurant in tustin Ca. I ususally just'passed it off. After all I worked as a page in the Tustin Library and often people recognize my face but do not know my name as I am alway just seen shelving books and other media. I wa a page and pages go not wait on patrons, they work with the books and media. the clerks and librarians do that part of the job.
@sushie93 (1359)
• France
29 Mar 10
Hello, It did happen very often to me too and to not be depressed, i prefer to think that people think i'm cute or something. Because i have checked my face and it was looking normal xD. Sometimes, i want to smile back to them because some of them were really
• China
29 Mar 10
Hi, friend. That's interesting. I have a lot of such experiences as i'm acknowledged by nearly all my friends to be a pretty girl. Lol! When some guy stares at me, i usually care not a bit as it's something out of my control. Just take no notice of him. That's okay. If you stare back, he may tend to think that you mean for something. Don't doubt whether there is dirt on your face or clothes because it's completely unnecessary. I've done it numerous times but found myself okay every time i tried to check. There are just some guys who like to stare at girls with a dirty look. You don't need to bother with them. Have a good day.