What is LOVE at First Sight?...do you believe in it?...

Love at first sight - i just hope you are the one....
Philippines
March 29, 2010 9:30am CST
They say when you hold each other's hands and there's a spark like an electricity rushing through your veins, then that could be love. Some says that when you see each other in the eyes, then Love blooms. Many interpretations are made on how Love at First Sight is experienced. Many would say that meeting someone in a shortest possible time would be an opportunity that he / she is the one to be loved. Is it a fairy tale or could it be in reality?...
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@vandana7 (58739)
• India
29 Mar 10
Hi Brynnerson, I am a bit realistic, so I need logical explanations for everything. :) Ok starting with holding hands, and electricity. that is possible with many! Try going to some college and shaking hands with every girl. :) You might even find that reaction with your teacher, or neighbor. I read somewhere it is some chemicals released by our body - natural match making? :) Well, that is one aspect. The other is how much time you have to devote to it. We each have several things on our minds, our financial problems, our family squabbles, our careers, blah blah. So - if I have too many of these problems, my mind would naturally seek some escape, and what better way than thinking about somebody whom you liked that day. The same thing could also happen if you dont have anything on your hand - the stress of ennui. :) Either way, it is crucial that you think about the person - and spend more than a few waking seconds - rather fill up all time gaps in the day with the thoughts of this person. Of course, you are creating a fictitious image of the person, and you call it love. :) That too love and first sight. :)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Thank you for your brilliant explanation... i am just giving an idea on some person's first impression if it is Love at first sight...but by the way you have said it, it brings me back to my childhood days... hahahaha... very true... thank you so much for that... ;)
@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
i don't believe in love at first sight..i think that is what we called a very intense feeling of attraction..
@singuri (571)
• India
30 Mar 10
I don't believe love at first sight. I have never seen a " love at first sight" case. In fact these type cases won't last for a long time. Their relationship wont last long.It is almost an infatuation or lust.Any way this is my personal opinion. There may be cases where this type of love has been successful, but the number is very very small.No one said they felt a spark when they had encountered a girl or a boy.
@SHAMRACK (8384)
• India
30 Mar 10
ear friend, I feel may be if one love other he would be even willing to give life for that person like Romeo and Juliet. But at first sight itself I do not feel that person will sacrifice life for the other one. May it would be some sort of attraction like beauty or any other features. Love comes when they tend to know each other better and better relation, understanding. Hence I feel love at first sight might be attraction.
@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
No, I don't believe on Love at first sight maybe because never been into that situation. But somebody might believe it because they are experiencing it. Maybe for me it's too fairy tale and might not exist in today's generation.
@phynx15 (248)
• India
29 Mar 10
I think there is love at first sight but not the true love that really makes people mad. Suppose you see someone and you like him/her and say you just love the being, everything of his/her character impress you. You can love and like people at first sight but if don't continue to see them, i don't think you will continue to think of them or remember them as your only and true love in the rest of your life. But that person, if you see each other every time and he/she also have have the same feelings and really fall in love to remember each other for the rest of your lives. This love started at first sight but it developed with time, and you can also hate each other with time. So there is love at first sight but it is not a mature one, just a beginning.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I dont believe in love at first sight(sorry), i think its attraction at first sight. You can be attracted with someone right away but u cant say that u already love that person. For you to love someone you need to spend your time with him/her. You need to get to know that person and see where things will lead both of you. ;)
@samijo719 (1054)
• United States
29 Mar 10
To be honest, I think you can have a connection or lust with someone at first sight but I don't believe in love at first sight. Not because i'm cynical or unromantic, I'm all for romance. I just think when you love someone it's about loving who they are as a person and what they are as a person. Not just the attraction you have to them. And how can you have love at first sight if you don't even know that person!? I believe you have to get to know a person to love them cause you could look and someoe and be immediatly attracted to them but then when you talk to them and get to know them, have absolutly nothing in common.
@frizvi (98)
• India
29 Mar 10
I think love at first sight is true and have seen people fell in love in first meeting only.Yes seeing in each others eyes made them fall in love.It attracts.Its reality b=not fairy tale.
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I believe in it 70%. I've read a magazine article that love only happens when you've already known the person fully. I can say I've experienced "love at first sight" but I'm not really sure if it's love. But I believe if it would be called "infatuation at first sight". That is more realistic.
@di44ito (496)
• Bulgaria
29 Mar 10
Yes i believe in it, i think that love at firt sight is when you see someone and from the moment that you see this person you think that this is the men/women for you and that you are ready to do everything for this person.
• Netherlands
29 Mar 10
Well, I believe that's a strong attraction, not love. I have felt attracted to people like that before, but to really love them is another thing. Most guys will lose their interest after they've been with that girl for example, but if they were in love I'm sure they'd stay to her no matter what. And what if the process is not mutual (which in most of the cases IS the case..) then you are in a world of suffering... I'm trying to get to know the people first and am of the type that slowly fall in love.
• United States
29 Mar 10
I think love at first sight is possible. The first time i met my fiance i knew he was the one. We been together almost 3 years. And we are still as happy as we was the first day we met we have a daughter and everything together. And we couldnt be happier!!!
@dreamnishu (1253)
• China
29 Mar 10
Yes i believe first site love as i fall many time. First site love means when a person love one person and the person whom she/he love he doesn't know about this mater. Or if he knows then he doesn't love her. It means first site love. I am sure you also fall in first site love in your life.