I need your opinion!

Philippines
March 30, 2010 6:50am CST
Which do you choose, the girl that you love so much but you don't know if she loves you back or the girl that really loves but you don't really love her much? Your opinion is highly recommended. Thank you.
9 responses
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
If I were you, I would prefer to be with the person that I really love because I might regret in the end if I won't fight for my feelings for him.
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Thank you very much.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
You're so much welcome...
• Vietnam
30 Mar 10
I choose the girl i love because you can't live forever with someone without love^^
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Thanks for your honest answer. I appreciate it.
@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
5 Apr 10
Hi Ildeguzman, If I were you, I will choose the girl that love me. If we keep chasing the girl that we really do not know their feeling towards us, we might broke our own heart if she really does not love us back. It is a difficult feeling though. But I am sure that i would get the love from the girl that love me. It is hard to accept but we need to try to love her back. It is better we keep the one we have then looking for the better one but we do not know about it.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
I have been in both situations. The question is, where did I became happy?the one who loves me or the one I love even he doesn't love me back? My answer is the one I love. I tried loving the one who loves me, but I was never happy mind you. He gave me everything, yet it was not enough. Even though it was quite tiring for I choose the one I love who doesn't love me, I know its him I want.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
I would choose "the girl that really loves but you don't really love her much." Everything can be learned. Learned to cook, to speak and to love.At least you have the chance of happiness in that situation. If you can love yourself, you can love other too.:) Maybe my opinion will help. hope so.
@770876 (151)
• Malaysia
31 Mar 10
In my opinion , it should be love each other, Otherwise, it is unfair for each.
@sunkernjs (219)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Please choose the one you love. For me it is not how you receive love but how you Give love. That is important in a relationship. Don't expect that your partner will love you the same as you do. For if ever, you might over expect and lead to depresion. Be contented and just share what you can share. Love is giving not receiving.
@DuyenN (68)
• Canada
30 Mar 10
Well, before you decide to choose, maybe ask the girl that you love how she feels about you. If you already asked and she didn't give you a definite answer, then the decision would have to lie on whether you're a risk taker or not. Normally I wouldn't go for the guy that loves me but I don't really feel that way for him because you can't force your feelings. It's really hard to make yourself fall in love with someone when it hasn't bloomed and it never occurs to you. I'm not saying that it's impossible. If you choose the girl that loves you, you'll always be thinking of "what ifs" towards the other girl and she will always be on your mind when you're with the girl that loves you. It wouldn't be fair to you nor to the girls. Besides it's not like she never said she doesn't love you. Love doesn't come that easily to people, so be patient. Be with the girl that you really feel for and not jump to the other one because it's a safer choice. It's not like this is a marriage proposal, so you have plenty of time to test the waters.
@cloud31 (5811)
30 Mar 10
I would choose the one who love me much though I love him less,I believe that love can be develop if he will show more care then I think I would surely gave back to him what hes giving me, I'm easy to fall someone who show care and loved me without asking me to love him in returned, so I know time will come I will love him too the same as he do..I don't know why but I like being loved not myself being in loved first, I just cannot help myself to love the person who doesn't have so much feeling on me..So I would the one who love me..MUCH.. Happy myLotting!