Well have you ever suffered from PHOBIAS?what is this??

@umit_umit (1988)
India
March 31, 2010 2:38pm CST
I have heared this word many times but i saw one of my uncle relative in this situation,like he was perfectly allright and was speaking very good in the house and as soon as he went out,he started telling me that see there here some body is standing at the top looking at us!i was surprised what he is saying!he told i dont want to go with anybody,he told that i have some work and he left and started walking all alone!he was to go with us and have some food!in the market!but i dont know what happened to him he started telling i dont want to go!i have lot of work to do!and he went back!!what is this??he was perfectly in the mood!what has gone wrong with him??can you tell?its going out fobia?or what??
1 response
• United States
1 Apr 10
I dont have a phobia, but probably some general (and understandable) fear... Like being bit by a highly poisonous spider. Your uncle sounds like he may be paranoid or has anxiety..no specific "phobia" that i can think of. Probably some strange and outlandish social phobia. If it's as serious as you claim, he should seek professional help and perhaps go to therapy. He may not like being around people or feel as if he's in danger if he is outside of familiar grounds. hope he gets better. that sounds horrible.
@umit_umit (1988)
• India
1 Apr 10
well he dont like at all going out even with his wife!and walk with her!as he starts behaving very stupid out like a small child full of anxiety and start sticking with her and she gets so irritated that she dont want to go out with him!he cant walk quietly with her!keeps on speaking something or the other!and ambarresed her by keeping hands on her shoulder,waist and then take them off again he do tyhe same!his wife only told this!i think he is crazy!or what??now they have arrived at the verge of seperation due to his this behaviour!
• United States
4 Apr 10
Umit, that sounds horrible. I'm no specialist, but if what you say is true than your uncle definitely needs to seek professional help (and possibly marriage counseling). If he does indeed have some psychiatric problem he needs to be tended to with care. Try and get him some professional help if you can, please. You and your fam, take care.
@umit_umit (1988)
• India
5 Apr 10
well friend now he has taken some medicines from the doctor and now he is some relaxed!kinds!my be he has been given seditatives!!