The One WHO LOVES YOU or the One YOU LOVE?

United States
November 16, 2006 2:51am CST
Who will you choose and why? I'd go for the one I LOVE. True love should never expect anything in return. So i should not expect this person to love me back. So Id choose to love the person whatever the case maybe. Becoz that will make me happy. What about you?
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@hottie0728 (1732)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I definitely choose the ONE I LOVE. I would never ask for more than being with the one I love. Being with the one I love would make me happier than being with the one who loves me that I cannot even love. I wouldn't expect anything in return but I think I am lovable enough so we'll love happily ever after, lol. Thanks!
• United States
3 Feb 07
haha true.. what if the one i love will someday love me.. you got a point there too.
@shekruse (680)
• India
24 Jan 07
I'll choose "The One Who Loves Me". Love is to give and not take.. When the Other Person is Giving me Love that i deserve why wud i Refuse..??
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• United States
3 Feb 07
well.. you have a point. thank you for sharing.
• United States
21 Jan 07
The one who loves you of course. You can love someone and no matter how much you love them, they might never ever love you back. I learned this the hard way. If you go for the one who loves you, then you will always have them with you and their love too.
• United States
3 Feb 07
i am quite aware though that this loving someone who doesnt love you back is really hard. but sometimes we all just have a passion for love, that even if it hurts, we still choose that. thank you for sharing your 2cents.
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
I think it would be better if both of you love each other...but if I'll be given the chance to choose between the two....I should choose the one who truly loves me...I will not let myself suffer for the one I love who can't love me in return...who can't love me because that person is loving another person....so why let myself suffer ?? knowing there's someone who deserves my love...
• United States
3 Feb 07
that's wonderful. but sometimes too we can never be happy being with someone we dont love, sometimes there is happiness in choosing the person you love. thank you for sharing.
@lauriefnp (5113)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I would go for the one who loves me. There is nothing more painful than being with someone and loving them without those feelings being returned. If it couldn't be a mutual love, then I would be selfish and take the love he has to give.
• United States
3 Feb 07
being selfish in this case is understandable.. i know most people feel frustrated because their love isn't given something in return. thank you for your response.
@Alissia (213)
• Romania
1 Feb 07
the one who loves me and I love.
@patrice7 (1197)
• United States
1 Feb 07
hmm.. let me think.. - well wait a minute.. let me ponder..
wow!. celestialvie i agree with you 100%!. i will of course choose the one i love!. i will not force myself to love the person who loves me so much for the simple fact that i do not love him and i love someone else.. i agree that true love expects nothing in return.. my love is freely given and i do not love this person because he loves me back or because he might love me back.. i love him because he is who he is and i love him because he makes me happy.