If your MyLot Friend not giving responses to your discussions.......

Hi Balu I never feel worried, there might be several reasons, he/she might not have liked the discussion, might be buzy, net may not be there, even i have not responded to posts four weeks old, but i tell there 'sorry for the late response' usually,,,,, Thanks for this nice post, cheers Happy easter Prof

May be that friend is little busy and not able to concentrate much in mylot. If the friend is posting to all the other friends and only not for your discussion, then you should feel. People will have busy times, bad times. I usually give margin for all.

well i must be wondering, maybe she/he is not just log n because busy or sick. but i wait for his other discussion and try to response it.Or maybe the PM would be effective to know how is he/she.

Hi Balu, Nice question, well, if my MyLot Friend not giving responses to my discussions, I will never worry because might be they are busy and have not enough time to respond but I am sure the day they are free they will respond and also sometimes it happens, your discussions are not so interesting that's why even if they want to respond they feel lil' low in responding so they just skip like I feel. To get response your discussions must be more impressive and interesting that even if one doesn't want to, they are supposed to respond. Thanks and have a nice day!!!

Helo Balu I have got a lot of friends for whom I will respond to the maximum possible after all friends are for help only in times of need. But out of all only 4 or 5 people will respond me for my discussions regularly. But I do not feel bad. May be they do not know about my discussions or may be busy. I think that If i respond to all my friends, it does not mean that they also must respond me, after all it is individual's will and wish. We can only expect but can't force. Is not it?

hi,i don't mind,because i thought positively.First,i think that my discussion may not attract them or they may be busy with some other work.

I have around 700 friends here, I just started a discussion about Easter recipes after a long long time, but I just received one response from my mylot friend who is non christian. that single response is equal to 100 responses as I felt very very happy to receive the response for this great christian occasion from a non christian friend of mone.

I'd feel just fine i think. I'm not replying to some of their discussions too so i think it's alright. I won't sulk about it.

I think in such cases the friend/friends cannot be blamed. There might be some problem causing the friend/friends to not respond to my discussion. I will check out for the real problem rather than thinking and blaming friends. Sometimes it might be because i forgot to leave responses to their discussions, or the discussion which i had started isnt that of their taste or they might not be knowledgeable anough in that field to respond to my discussion etc. I believe if there is a problem, there must be a cause. We need to find and explore the cause inorder to take steps for solving the problem. Otherwise we will be left clueless blaming others for no reason.

I think that doesn't really affect the value of friendship...I think what others are doing this just for business..and I'm also almost becoming one of those people...

I probably wouldn't even notice :D Even if I did, I wouldn't mind. I don't respond to all my friends' discussions either, only the ones I think are interesting enough to put the effort of answering to :D