My friend is leaving me........,,later or sooner....

@greyz7 (861)
Philippines
April 5, 2010 4:49am CST
i have a friend who is an American citizen, and she's leaving to USA soon to have a better job. Thinking about it makes me sad because i would surely miss her and i can't imagine staring to live a life without her since we are always togetehr almost everyday..and now, she's gonna leave me and i'll be here all alone..what if she meets another person then they would become best of friends? oh my! i can hardly accept that if it would occur..i love her so dearly that i don't think i could find another same as her or more than her..
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@qamarep (4453)
• Pakistan
5 Apr 10
its very hard to leave a friend for a long time. but you can talk to her through computer and webchating
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, yah! thanks to the high technology nowadays..i hope we could continue communicating.
@umit_umit (1988)
• India
5 Apr 10
well be prepare for the worst!!life is like this only we should be ready for all!!keep your spirit high!best of luck!
@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, prepare for the worst and hope for the best..guess i have to stick with this..thanks!
@dzeanne (79)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
yeah, i think we're on the same boat. i also have a friend who recently moved to US and we're still talking. i saw her facebook and she's got so many friends now. i started to talk to her lesser than before and a part of me is also afraid that she might forget about me since she already has friends there and i don't know if i'll be able to meet her again. but im happy for what's happening to her right now and i'll just be here for her always. it already happened to me when i was younger that a my best friend transferred to another school and we didn't talk much since then. she already had another bestfriend and i still miss her.
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, oh my! kinda sad for you. yah, that's what i'm scared of..when one of us would start to forget and would start to make another bond. I don't want that to happen, so i'll see to it that there is a frequent open-line in communication.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Hi greyz7 I understand what your feeling right now.2 of my really closest friends went to London to work. I was so sad at that time when they spilled the news. They were so happy, because they really waited for it. I dont want also to end up being on the opposite side, but I was also partly happy for them. They left on my birthday, I really cried because I know I will never get to have really good friends. I miss them a lot.I still communicate with them to nurture our relationship. Its all part of having a relationship, someone sometimes has to go, but it doesnt mean it ends there.Continue showing your love for each other even when she's half way around the globe. And start making new friends, they cant replace the old ones but they could help you carry on in life.
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, thanks for the advice. yah, i will continue to show my love fore her even if she's away from me..and will see to it that we will have a good time together while she's still here...
@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
5 Apr 10
Hi greyz, I believe that every meeting would ended and we could not stop it. We need to realize it, like it or not. As for you case, you should let her go because she is going to the place where she belong. She also want to improve her life and you can not be the reason for that not to happen. Even though both of you were living in the different places and countries, you can still contact her whenever both of you have time. You can call her by phone or chatting room or skype.
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, i'll make sure we could continue or communication even if we are miles and miles away from each other.
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I think you're infatuated with her. Lol. It's alright. Find new friends and create new bonds cuz it just goes like that. Sometimes you lose some, sometimes you win some. This time you lost but someday you're gonna win.
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
infatuated? what? hahaha! yah,some will come and some will go. i guess that's life..
@mspitot (3834)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
even if you are far from each other,as long as you still love each other and you communicate with each other, you are still friends. just always keep her in your heart.
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, thank you! yah, i just hope so..but rest assured that i will love her forever and she will always be my best friend no matter what.
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@OConnell87 (1046)
5 Apr 10
If your meant to stay friends you'll both work at it. I know how you feel when i was younger my family moved from wales to england and i had to leave all my friends behind...we stayed in touch for about a year but after that we drifted apart..they ust weren't meant to be my friends forever..BUT i have a group of friends there are 8 of us and we have know each other for 13 years and speak to each other on facebook every other day and see each other every week even though we are all doing our own thing in life...
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@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, thanks! yah, it's really saddening thinking about that day to come..whew! i will just pray for whatever turmoil i would be feeling on that moment and that i could move on swiftly..good to know you have found circle of friends now for a long time..i'm happy for you.
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@RachelleNH (1408)
• United States
5 Apr 10
I'm sorry...I know how hard that is...all my friends moved away and I am still here. I think that's kinda how life is..people come and people go. It's a never ending flow. At least you'll always have the internet to chat now and then (I know it's not the same but it's something :)
@greyz7 (861)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi, thanks! yes, thanks to the internet and cellular phone technology, the line could be opened for communication.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Hi Greyz7! I understand how you feel, because I did experience such thing. I am sure your friend feel the same way also. There are times in our lives wherein we don't have any control and the best way that we can do is to accept and look to the positive side of the situation. Sometimes we have to sacrifice for a better one. You have nothing to worry that your friend might meet a person that would be her best friend because you are already in her heart. Wherever she may go still you are her best friend and no one can change that. You are a unique person ,hence nobody is like you and being that, your best friend will never forget you as her best friend.
@freerr (667)
• China
6 Apr 10
It's very pity of you. But if this thing will happen sooner or later, no helpful for you if you just thinking about it and keep sad. You must try you best to let the thing change. Either try to make her stay for you or go with her together, otherwise, you must try to forget her and pull yourself together.good luck.
@Jane56 (1)
• China
6 Apr 10
Noone can stay with us forerer.Sooner or later,our best friends will leave us.Maybethey have to go to another place for life.Maybe they just want to find another kind of life style.Maybe,they have to do it. I just want to say,everyone will makes friends with many people during our life.Therefore,you also can make friends with another people.On the other hand,you also can connect with your best friend.Nothing can separate you.