do you think your a good friend?

@werty009 (404)
Philippines
April 5, 2010 8:23pm CST
do you think your a good friend? when a person ask you about it, what would you feel would you think that your a good friend you did everything to be a good one,what would it take to be a good friend,what can you do to be a good friend,questions like that got me to ponder in such a way,it's not all about giving a person much comfort it can be what can you give for friendship,questions that bugs me....
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@replyashu (747)
• India
6 Apr 10
yes i am quite a good friend.... it depends on how others rate you rather than how you rat yourself so others or better say my friends say i am quite a nice buddy to hang with, on that basis i can declare myself as good friend
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@cloud31 (5811)
6 Apr 10
I think I'm a good friend,who can always put my friends wishes before mine,who wish their happiness always without considering my own happiness,I always tell to myself I always don't have the courage to hurt my friends knowing that I'm being unfair to myself,for me when friendship is involved I always consider my friends happiness and satisfactions and I think its good enough to be a good friend, indeed. Good day!!Happy myLotting!
@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
well good to have a good friend like you
• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Apr 10
Hi WErty, Yes, i consider myself a good friend. i always try my best to be a good friend to my friends. i look after what is good for them and help them when needed. i am not perfect but the mere fact that i alway look forward to praying for the best thing to happen in their lives and hope that they be happy always.
@Gany15k (1674)
• India
6 Apr 10
Yes,I think I'm a good friend...It really depends upon how the friends of yours share things with you...My friends share almost everything to me...I too share with my friends...If you are treated well among your friends then that too indicate you are a good friend....and yes a really a good question what can you give for friendship.....I can give anything I can...
@jewels49 (1784)
• United States
6 Apr 10
Based on the length of most of my friendships, I would have to say I am. Many of my friends have been friends for years and years, One of my best friends is one I had in high school 30 years ago. We don't live near each other any more but we connect on line once or twice a week. I think to be a good friend you only need to truly care and be aware of what is going on in a friends life. Sometimes one friend might need a little more support than another or a little more of our time and if we are aware, we act accordingly.
@junil_jk (498)
• India
6 Apr 10
yes, i don't 'think' i'm a good friend, but i know i'm a good friend. forgive me if you think i'm too overconfident about this. at the same time i'm not very open and outspoken and free to mix with. i'm quiet, shy, and don't get along with someone new easily. people find me uneasy or cold in first meetings. but once we get along and feel free with each other and become friends, then we become good friends. in order to be a good friend, in my opinion, you have to be selfless. that's the most important thing for me. i'm happy to say that i have a very big friend circle throughout the country. being this quiet and not talkative, sometimes i'm really amazed that i have this many friends. and one thing is for sure, i've always tried to give them my best and have always been honest to them. yes, honesty is one important thing in being a good friend. this is my opinion about being a good friend.
@geniustiger (1699)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I cannot say this , might be the person experienced whoam I in her life. In my I am but don't know to their eyes and heart if they treat me as friends. But I have one told that we never get quarreled evn one time in our closeness , I guess thats one of the basis as good friends. Whatever she wants to share I have a big heart and big shouders to lean on. I always listen and share whatever to her and so with foods and all situations and favors.
@dzeanne (79)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I personally think that I'm not a good friend. I'm so selfish to be even called as one. Well, it's how I view myself as a friend, but I really don't know what other people think of me. Most of them say that I'm kind and so much willing to offer anything. But I've always tried my best to be a good one. However, I always end up hurting my friends.
• China
6 Apr 10
Well,I think I am a good friend but still have some reluctance.Maybe I should just say "yes.of course" but I do have no conffidence about this.I'll go to ask my friends someday.But I want to say,if you need me,no matter what things and what time it is,I'll awlays be there for you ,my friends.
• India
6 Apr 10
offcourse iam.whenever my friend faces any bad situation in life, i'll be the first person to help him.In his sorrow times i'll be supporting him inorder to overcome his depression.
@julster (12)
• United States
6 Apr 10
i think i ama good friend to those i know.I try to listen when they have problems and try to be impartial. i have a shoulder to cry on if need be . I try to visit them or call them as often as we can.If i see a friend once a week i try not to break that to often unless sick or something special comes up. a friend comes thru in good times and bad and is someone you enjoy hanging with,laugh with ,cry with etc..... I HAVE SOMEfriends i haven,t seen in a while 6m to a year the bond is there so its never awkward when catching up in person or on the phone.
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
6 Apr 10
Yes i think.. i am still a good friends.. because i always helped my friends when they needed.. and i never say no.. to them.. because i know well that only a friends doing help to a friends.. when they needed.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..