Can you tel if the 2 GIRLS are having a special relationship?? Girl-Girl??

@greyz7 (860)
Philippines
April 6, 2010 8:43pm CST
hi, i know of two girls who are so closed to each other. They are easily mistakened as lesbians. Sometimes, we can easily conclude because they are constantly together. there are rumors that they are having a relationship and i don't wanna judge them. Maybe they are really best friends. Can you really tel if 2 girls constantly together are girlfriends?
11 responses
@hofferp (4739)
• United States
8 Apr 10
Does it really matter if they're just friends or are in a relationship? Do you want to be friends with them? If I wanted to be friends, I'd start talking to them. You'll find out one way or the other soon enough. If friendship isn't your end goal, then I wouldn't let it concern me and I'd blow off the rumors as rumors.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
hi, thanks! i know them but they aren't my friends, just acquaintance..i guess i have to befriend them and ask them to stop the rumor.
@hofferp (4739)
• United States
8 Apr 10
Or just don't be a part of the rumor. It'll go on regardless...
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
7 Apr 10
I would not listen to the rumors at all if I were you. If you don't want to judge them then it is pretty easy...you just don't. If they don't tell you that they are lesbians just don't assume that they are. if they are, it is still not a reason to pass judgement.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, i like what you said. yah, you are right, whether it's true or not it is their life and i don't have the right to judge them.
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
8 Apr 10
That's good that you think like that. Keep an open mind.
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yes, I can easily distinguish if 2 girls have a relationship because I am one of them. Lol! No matter how close 2 girls are as friends, they will still have limitations and will not show any signs of affection such as holding each others hands in public. There are a lot of signs if 2 girls are having something special going on. It takes one to now one I guess.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, really? you're one of them? are oh my, you kidding me? hehhehe......we saw them holding hands too..but they really deny and said they are just friends.
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Probably they are just denying it because hey don't feel comfortable about it? I really don't know because I have not seen them or you could probably spill some more details LOL!
@gracie04 (4555)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I guess it's really hard to identify most especially when they are both wearing dresses. I have been into a lesbian relationship for five years. my partner's a butch and i am a femme. people can easily identify whatever we have because we hold hands, look and smile at each other, etc. we just don't kiss in front of the public because we know that people don't like it. most of my friends are into lesbian relationships as well.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, oh i don't see wrong with that. It's just here in the Philippines, people are not that open-minded about those things....yah, i guess they are just friends.
@mareca11 (212)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Well, if they are lip-locking as well as holding hands then you are sure that they are having a relationship. I don't find it wrong.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, i believe you're right, mareca11.people have only seen them holding hands.
@piya84 (2591)
• India
7 Apr 10
Ohh god that not fair really.They can be just friends.I dohvae three very close friends and we are together atlist ten years.I hope people are not drawing similar conclusion about us.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yah, i know. not fair. even if they hold hands in public, i think it's just an affection.
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I cannot tell for two people being together either having a special kind of relationship or just best friends at all unless they admit it. It's hard to judge or to speculate them.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yeah!it's not good to speculate unless the persons concern should admit..especially in western continent, very sexy and good-looking ladies are homosexuals..
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Its easy to identify if you know who the tomboy is. But if both of them are dressing up like women and they look like real women then its unidentifiable. There are plenty of cases like that, sometimes we think that she's a woman but actually she is a lesbian. Its really difficult but looking for a homosexual is easier.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yes, very difficult to determine if both are sexy and good-looking..unless they would admit.
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
7 Apr 10
Well unless they flat out tell you this or you see them in some sort of display of romantic affection then no. You could always ask them but they can always tell you an answer either way or be insulted that you would ask this. MANY American women usually ages 23 and under are CONSTANTLY together, but this doesn't make them lesbians!
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yah, maybe they're just really that close..and whether it's true or not that they are having a relationship, it's their life anyway.
@replyashu (747)
• India
7 Apr 10
they can be called friends also
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yah! just friends. best friends.
@dark_joev (3043)
• United States
7 Apr 10
They could be really close friends I have a few girlfriends that we get mistaken for as being in a relationship when we are just really good friends. I think that if you are really curious about it you could always ask one of them if they are close friends or that you know them. They will tell you if they are or not. I wouldn't really be able to help you with the telling if they are together because every lesbian (scratch that every) relationship I have seen is a little different. There should be some energy around them that says we are in a relationship/in love with each other that comes off them that is what I have noticed when I am around people that are in a more that friends type relationship. Hope this helps in some way.
@greyz7 (860)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
hi, yah, maybe they are just so close of friends. i don't wanna ask also for they must be insulted..and whether it's true or not, it's their life.