I Need A Boy Friend ASAP Pleaseeeeeeee

@sunnycool (12737)
India
April 9, 2010 1:13am CST
There is one Girl(actually a middle aged woman) who tried to flirt with me in someother site---I let her that i wasn't interested ---indirectly in our informal interaction.I decided to backoff as she seemed too fishy---she even shared her phone number She disappeared for few days----All of a sudden she popped out by my page asking me to recommend her a boy friend --as she couldnt impress me or whatever Now What the heck was that request---I should recommend someone who is looking out for a woman infact a date---would you recommend any of your friends to her??? Would you look for a date in this virtual world---why cant she look out for a man in real life instead of dating a stranger Online. You never know----whether you're interacting with a Girl or Not---they can hold you for a great surprise All those who took me to be Gay by the title of this post ----- deserves #$%@^&
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25 responses
@coffeegurl (1470)
• United States
9 Apr 10
I'm sorry, your post seems kinda Ghey. Are U asking for Boy Toy or Girl Toy?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
Hi coffeegurl---you would have understood the discussion if you cared to read the main post---looks like you made this response by the title itself
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• United States
10 Apr 10
I did read the post, but it still seemed a bit confusing. I wondered if you swung both ways?
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@sunnycool (12737)
• India
11 Apr 10
Which part was confusing---what you mean by both ways
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@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Apr 10
Whoa! For a second there, I thought you had had a gender change. Yeah, you don't always know what you're dealing with online. And yet people go looking for relationships there all the time. I think more of them don't work out than do, but the ones that do work out give the other people hope.
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@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
seems you were disappointed psycho mom It can be confusing as she is looking for a good mate or she just wanted to fulfill her lust mat be one night stand or that kind Those who found their love in online are lucky enough
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• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Miss Dawn actually I think Sunny is just having an excuse and is too afraid to admit he had a gender change
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@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Apr 10
Sunny, are you going to put up with this? :-)
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
lol, it happens in the web and maybe that girl is really a flirt or is very desperate to be in a relationship or to get laid. Why would you not recommend yourself sunny?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
if i were to recommend myself then why would i be here I dont have any idea about her intentions though if she is looking forward to lay or some thing else I think you stand a good chance to be recommended and most of it you seem to be pretty interested So await her PM now
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Not interested at all. bweh! And i have a girlfriend right now ans he's beautiful, why would I replace her with someone I haven't even met.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
So you want to make the most outta present one and then go for the other right else you would have cashed in the oppurtunity
@cloud31 (5811)
9 Apr 10
I don't think its right to recommend my friend to that girl,have her find her own..
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
How harsh you're prettie
@cloud31 (5811)
9 Apr 10
kidding...why don't you find for her? Don't you like her to your friend?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Yup i found one who is equally tempting and deserving and most of it desparately waiting
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
LoL hahahaha. Maybe those people are just doing it for kicks? You know? Trying to get strangers to date them? Anyway I wouldn't want to date someone I don't really know too well and for someone I haven't even met personally. I'm sorry I can't recommend anyone to your "friend".
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Would it be possible to Go for a date with someone who lives far far accross seven seas They try to get hold of their personal information and use that in all the possible bad ways.
@cloud31 (5811)
9 Apr 10
Of course its possible to date someone who lives in the other side of the continent but at least you need to know whom you're dating.. And personal information should be revealed before the date agreement
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
We would know more of them if at all they each other else it would be go where cloud----i must be aware of the best example though
• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Apr 10
Hi Sunny, OMG! well, i hope she will find the right man who will truly love her and be there for her not only as husband but as a lifetime partner. wanna apply friend?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Nope i'm not interested in her Winky---i did mention about it in my post and she is almost your age you dont find me dating her
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• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Apr 10
ahahaaaaaaa...it's okay. you made my night. goodnight!
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Good night Winky
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@kprofgames (3018)
• United States
9 Apr 10
I have been on yahoo chat off and on for years so I understand what you are saying. I have to wonder what country she was from. I know there are women from other countries that try to hone in on men on line. Promise love and whatever and they they sucker money out of these men. I never understood the online dating thing. In the 5 years I've talked with people online I've never been interested in a person that way. I have some very good online friends that I have met in real life and they are like family to me. I never, NEVER thought that any good relationship could happen by meeting someone line, but you know what? Last August I met a man and we talked for several months as friends. He jumped on a plane and met him in person and that is when I knew it was something more. So, long story short - I was a nonbeliever and it happened to me, so I guess sometimes there are genune, real people out there in cyber land.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Good to that you met your perfect in this online world girl ---well there can be all kinds---but some can be real true---Coming to bad ones a chat with them in personal would help me to keep a tab on their instincts---they would be extra caring for sure and they promise the entire world too. I came accross some mylotters who made friends in here and they have gone well together when they met personally which is really good and interesting to know the person in personal with whom we have been chatting for quiet a good time .So Are you married to him or havent decided yet?
• United States
9 Apr 10
LOL, haven't gotten that far but I'm not in any hurry. I think the online work is full of a mix of people. I have always said 1 out of 100 is a true blue person. I've made some really great friends on here from all over and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
hope things go that far for you ---the one i have specified in my main post was from your place
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
9 Apr 10
BB, just help her out and get it over with. How bad can it be?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
How can i suggest someone to her---she isn't quiet firm and i dont think she is looking for a person who would be with her rather she is looking for someone who can accompany her in bed
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
9 Apr 10
Well, tell her to get a blow-up doll or something. Tell her to leave you alone and that is that.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
i really wonder what that something is about
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
No I will definitely not going to recommend my friend to a someone I don't really know sunnycool. Why would I be or act like a bridge to her? we are not close and I don't even know her in fact. I would definitely ignore this girl and would not reply to her messages anymore...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
Thats the same with me too---however i tried to get rid of her saying that i wasn't interested in her---i thought she must have found one in one month's time but she popped out all of a sudden singing the same old song asking for a boy friend
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
She seems hopeless and very desperate to have a boyfriend... I am not gonna deal with that kind of person as if her life is nonesense without a man... And to ask somebody whom she doesn't know really is such a desperate move... Better stay away from her...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
11 Apr 10
Well if she is loyal then someone can make the most of her being desparate---else she would be successful bluffing a new one---i would stay outta it
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 10
You can recommended me.... i can be a middle age man. ...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
Grrrhhh this Indonesian Devil is still confusing ---who knows you might turn to into a woman on the awaited night
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 10
oh come on sunny...you are jealous with me right.... that means...hmm...what does the appropriate word ??...........------------......... you are actually in love with her
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
yup you read others mind perfectly---i'm in love with her---with you and the every other girl in here
@hexeduser22 (5854)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
I never thought you would actually go this far to set up an excuse of you wanting a boyfriend of your own Don't hide in that abs of yours be strong and admit what you really are Anyway, I had my fun *lol* I've never been asked directly by an older woman like that in my life. I have been indirectly approached by an older woman in myspace before but I never replied at all because when I checked her profile she only had 1 or 2 friends on her list and she was not even on my friends list at all. So I thought it was a spam
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
30 Apr 10
Looks like you have decided to mate a man Hex---there by implying it each and every response you make ---hope my discussion helped you with an excuse to find your ideal G@Y Mate lol.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Oh so you push me the blame of your identity huh Okay I'll grant your wish I will pray that you will find your G@y mate soon so you wont have to be alone and hide all your life
• United States
9 Apr 10
Love has to happen naturally, it does happen overnight. If you don't like her, I hate to say this, but lie to her and tell her that you already have a girlfriend, or tell nicely that you just aren't that into her.
• United States
10 Apr 10
Okay, so she knows that you are not interested in her. That's a start. She sounds DESPERATE! Seriously, this girl has issues. You need to train her. It sounds bad when I say it like that, but that is what you have to do. Tell her that until she improves on who and what she is, and on who and what she is about, and what she wants, she should not have boyfriend because she would be toxic to him and he would be even more toxic to her (believe it or not he would be). Find out what she is about. Find out what she really wants, and work with her, but tell her that realistically, if she is looking for love, it will not happen over night. I DO NOT believe in finding love over the internet. Do you know why? You cannot see the person face to face, you cannot hear them or see there mannerisms, you cannot see how they really are. The internet is cold, and you do not really know who is behind that keyboard. I met my boyfriend in person. I love comic books, graphic novels, music, books, and just the arts in general. I am not sports person. I love cats, but I am not much of a dog person (even though I am trying to work on that), okay, see where this is going? Interest, what is this girl interested in? You can better understand her if you know who she is and what she wants. You need this information to find men who might want to be with her, but not right now, not yet. Be careful with this girl.
@Lena25 (51)
• United States
10 Apr 10
This looks like a desperate person looking for love in all the wrong places. Let her keep mov-in, if you know what I mean. Who want to date someone like that? This person seems like a stalker. Run, run as fast as you can go. That goes for anyone else who comes across this person. This lady needs to get a life.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
11 Apr 10
haha i dont think she would come to me again atleast i hope---she can keep herself busy searching for a good one in her place rather than looking out for a stranger in this virtual world---Welcome to Mylot and enjoy your weekend
@RawBill1 (8542)
• Gold Coast, Australia
10 Apr 10
HaHa! Well you certainly got my interest when you posted a title like that as I thought you were male! This is a pretty weird thing to have happen to you. There are plenty of legitimate dating services online for people like this woman. She should be looking there instead of normal social networking sites. I have some friends who have met partners at an older age through these types of dating sites. They are good for older people who do not have single friends and do not fit into the nightclub and pub scenes anymore.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
11 Apr 10
yup those might be better place for her to find one---i dont think she isn't aware of those as you said you find old ones there---i really doubt if she is looking for old guyz they do not last long with her in bed.great day.
@sid556 (31006)
• United States
10 Apr 10
Hi Sunnycool, I did not take you to be gay at all. In fact, I read the post before really even paying attention to your avatar so... Anyway, NO NO NO do NOT refer this woman to anyone at all. She could be a real nice person but your doubts are legit. That is what I question about this method of meeting people. I know there are many stories where people have found real love online but my thought is always, "why are they not meeting anyone in real life?" I think that sometimes on a forum, you can find that you have a lot in common with someone else and I kind of get how that could happen. I could be way off on this but when someones sole purpose of being on line is to meet someone, to me thata a redflag. With all the redflags, I would never ever reccomend a friend. I jsut would never push a friend to hook up with any one that I didn't personally know.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
11 Apr 10
lol is there anything with my profile pic---I tend to avoid girls or women who tend to be show their feelings very easily it makes no sense for me to hangout with strange girls whom i never interacted with.Sure that majority of people in this virtual world try to bluff each other but there are good ones too---being cautious when it comes to strangers can make things better
@Celanith (2334)
• United States
10 Apr 10
Well I can believe it. There are some pretty nasty women out there as well as some men. I am a 60 year 0ld grandmother and can't tell you how many times some perv has hit on me and from both sexes until I let them know that I am not joking I really am a 60 year old grandmother. Even then some are just nasty and perverted sicko's. I hope you find a nice young decent girl to be with who likes you for who you are as you are and does not think she can better or change you. My hubby and I have been married for 40 years this month. He is the best thing ever to happen to me. I would not trade him for anyone. So hold out faith that inspite of this pathetic woman who must be desperate or a nymphomaniac there are clean, decent and great women out there worth befriending. As for recommending her I would try and found out where she is at and report her for stalking.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
She isn't here i came accross her in another site---its been more than a month or so since we met and she showed her interest intially as i stopped entertaining her by exchanging messages she came up asking for a BF---its harder to believe someone in this virtual world i wouldnt love to take any chances either i'm out of it.you might be right though she might be a nymphomanian
@geniustiger (1699)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
dear sunnycool, might be that girl has no other hobbies in life that is why she did it to you. You are right that we cannot be sure that she really a girl unless if you observe her for a longer time. Sometimes in the the net or site we cannot really rely if this is true or not. Depends on how you face it and reply from them. You have the choice to what you think is right to respond o her. Its up to you.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
I'm not sure if she is looking for a mate or true love so.Iternet is full of betrayals or scams---girls might lure men for women or get hold of their credit card information so we can never believe anyone.thanks for the response
@kaylachan (4776)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Apr 10
I would admit to blinking several times at that title. But, after reading the content under it, Yeah.... I wouldn't do that. I think this woman needs to find some kind of life. What she's doing sounds like its bordering on unhealthy. I hope she'll be alright. But, no I wouldn't do that (though I've been asked).
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
That why i added the last line to my main post ---i think she is more leisure than ever and here looking out for scape goats who can satisfy her in the nights---but i'm not so sure of her either---what makes me think so is she even shared her number which sounds fishy for sure---i know women in this virtual world are so conservative they doubt every one to the extent they think twice send a reply
@ronaldinu (12445)
• Malta
9 Apr 10
Hi sunnycool. I have read your post regarding this middle aged woman. I don't know this person and I cannot judge this person. You might know her better than I do for sure. But from the little you have said, this lady seems a very lonely woman. If you are not interested in her, you might be a good friend to her. I don;t like to recommend friends, especially if I know so little about them. If I do that I have to be certain of their good intentions and I know some background information about them. I have fixed friends for a date and only one had a happy ending and got married. In most cases it did not work out, either it was a one date only or else lasted a few weeks. I would be wary to recommend this internet friend if you don't know her so well. I can understand why people turn for internet dating because it might offer them an alternative to real life.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Apr 10
Hi Ronaldinu---i knew this woman for a month or so and seems to be nice to me the first thing which seems fishy to me was she shared her number in public without being hesitant(we dont see many girls doing this in this virtual world right)---i wouldnt introduce any of my friends so easily though i shall take some time as what she really expects from her ASAP boy friend she is looking for.
@setsuna26 (2410)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
There might be alot of reason why shes going for this option , but if you ask me i will just advice this girl to go out more and try to mingle more with her friends who knows she might find someone good for her. I wont just give her numbers at that instant unless i have a friend whose in the same situation too, i mean almost desperate to get a partner.Try to talk her through at least if thats what she really wants,then just as i said tell her to try and mingle and go out .
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
9 Apr 10
She can look out for the best one within her friends in offline rather than taking harder steps to date a stranger who can be dangerous as well and vice versa .however i do not believe in these online relationships until and unless i believe them i wouldn't move closely with them either .so all i can do i suggest her to look out for a good partner in offline