Why do friends not reply to you

Hi manleyjoe, I did not care if my friends did not give their response to my discussion since I rarely started one and it is usually about football and I believe most of my friends here either did not have the knowledge about it or they did not have any interest on it. We can not force someone to join our discussion when they had nothing to say. But, whether they were on my friends list or not here, whenever they give their response to my discussion, I would leave my comment on that. maybe not immediately but within a considerable time. When we talk about discussion, it mean two way communication. It is an interaction between two or more people and it is longer communication then ask and question type of communication. When we involved in the discussion, we need to say something about the topics, to agree or disagree and give our points. If or when someone reply to our points, we need to reply it back with more points or information. This process going on and on until we reach some point. We have a lot of people who knows and understand the meaning of discussion here at myLot. But there is also a few that never come back to their discussion after posting it. And I do not know exactly why they started the discussion because if they were looking for money then they did the wrong approach and if they are looking for a friends then they hurt their friends feelings.

I think some of them do not really know the meaning of 'discussion' and they confuse this site with other sites that are for questions and answers. MyLot tell us that we earn for discussions so they are losing out when they do not comment. I have several on my friend list too and they start so many topics that they could never possibly keep up weith the comments too I comment to those who respond on my discussions, even if it a response that arrives years after the discussion was first posted. They deserve something for their efforts and I comment back just like I would to anyone who spoke to me offline too.

Well there for a long time I was lucky if I ever came back and rechecked the discussions that I have started here, and actually probably missed out on keeping some great discussions going as well. Now even if I am quite behind with some of my discussions I am trying to keep up here where I can and hope people are understanding with me when it takes time.

For me I am not quick to judge I mean there are many reason for this. We can not know someone's life or their schedule or what they are doing so they may have reasons for not replying that are innocent to say the least. I allow people to contribute whenever they are capable or want to. I mean I won't get upset if anyone does not feel the need to respond to a discussion. I mean they may not be interested in the topic at hand and that is okay because we can't always like to talk about some of the things that your friends want to discuss and I think that is purely because we are so different like that.

i think people should feel like what you feel when their responses seem to be ignored. because i would write responses to those who i think has given an opinion (making sense or not doesn't matter). if it's just a 'yes same here' without any elaboration, i normally would just skip it. otherwise, i'll try to say something. i hope to make them feel ignored and hopefully think that they should write a better response next time.

This is true that people wont respond nor reply to our discussions. The reason may be they would have missed to read our discussions, else they dont wish to reply.Anyways we should not get discouraged by these acts instead try to give some interesting topics.

hi manleyjoe I had some of the same complaints when I first came here and an older user told me some good advice,just keep posting and getting your name in our faces so we will say hey manley is a really great responder, I must look up this persons discussions and respond back. now add these people to your friends list and soon you will be having a lot of responses and you can comment back and your earnings will really pick up.hugs from hatley.sometimes some friends just do not respond but you will find other friends who will be real friends and will respond to you so give us all a chance, good luck and God bless.

Don't worry, you are not the only one here who happens to experience that. But just think that people do come and go. Some may have the notice on emails, others don't set it as an option so they don't even know if you have started a discussion. Some may have seen your topic, but probably can't relate to the topic. There are many reasons to think off but don't get sad. Just continue on and post topics and reply also to other member's topics here. As you go along here in Mylot, you will experience more. So just brace yourself for more and don't get yourself so frustrated on what they do. Happy Mylotting.

maybe they are just busy with other topic thats why, besides they also might also have other friends to look with. just dont feel bad about it. imagine how many hundred of thousand we have here. what matter is you post your discussion and you post your response.

hi manley.... i reply according to the question...if i like the question then i will like to reply... and i wiill also reply who answer my post..i will take and read all the replies from the friends.. (one love, one earth, one god, many religion)