i wanted to learn how to speak english fluently

Philippines
April 10, 2010 1:40am CST
Yes I can write and understand English but if its my turn to speak in English, i feel very nervous. i don't know what will i say if somebody talk to me in English. my native language is Tagalog and i often uses it. but now that i want to find another job its hard for me to attend in the interview, since English is most common language uses during interview. i think i am not competent if i cannot speak fluently in English so i decided to enroll in an English class.I was hoping that after few weeks of studying, i will develop my communication skills using English language.
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17 responses
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
hello nice, that's very simple. attend call center training provided by tesda, i think Eperformax has a call center training that is free and acredited by tesda, they're available now, just send your resume online and apply there once they called you. No, it's never easy unless you're family had been inclined to speak English. as for me, i took more than five different trainings in the call center but being out of the job for more than three years makes me even doubt if i can speak that good again.
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
you know, no one in my family speak in English because they don't finish their study. My sister is only up to second year highschool, and my father is only elementary graduate, my mother don't even finish grade 3. therefore i dont speak english at home. and even in the place where i'm working. I dont talk most of the time. I enrolled in an english class for 60 hrs.My schedule is 2 hrs per day and i was hoping that after hoping that it will help me to build my confidence in speaking english.
@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
Just speak in simple English.I am not really good in verbal...I am most of the time running out of words when I speak English...During my interview before I just delivered it simply for the interviewer to understand immediately, I don't use flowering words so not to prolong the interview.If they'd call me to report then it simply mean they understood me.
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• Philippines
10 Apr 10
thank you for your good response but you know, i really run out of words when there is someone to talk me... specially when it is foreigner.. i cannot explain clearly what they want to know.. and i cannot also use my native language because they cannot understand it more. Here in my current job, there are some foreigner visit in the office. and you know what i always do, i always refer them to the other Admin assistant which they really supposed to talk... but when its really me who they need to talk, its hard for me...
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• Philippines
10 Apr 10
i agree you there. but if you're going to work in a call center, you gotta start the training for English proficiency, but speaking in basic is alright. you practice and probably watch English speaking movies and see how they talk and check which one is proper way to see watch people having conversation in english.that's the start.
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@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Nice, Here in myLot your English can be honed and there are more venues now in the web where you can really learn how to communicate foreigners well in English. Here in the web I learned a lot everyday and I am more confident now to talk to my Big Bosses or to other foreign nationals. And writing blogs is the other venue too where you can also hone your desire to learn to speak English not necessarily fluent but can easily communicate with the foreign nationals that they can understand what you are telling them. For us Filipino, we really need to upgrade ourselves in order for us to compete in the global market. Take time to open a tab for dictionary then type words that you think are useful in your day to day conversation with your clients. And also start to get out from your shell and mingle with other person, that's one thing also for you to learn good verbal communication. Well, good luck to us!:)
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@piya84 (2581)
• India
10 Apr 10
Hii there nice If you know how to write english and you can read and understand language then it wont be much difficult for you to talk.Its a matter of practice.Just close all doors and talk for one hour daily.Imagine some or you can talk with your kids or dog.I bet you wont feel nervous while talking with them. Try this and let us know your progress her eon my lot.Best of luck...
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
haha.. i kind of understand very well what you are going through... ^_^ Writing and reading doesn't need much confidence compared to conversing in english.. ^_^ haha... good luck!
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@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Apr 10
Yeah, I think I agree with you so much. No matter how better our writing are, We still should try our best to communitae with others. If other words, we must speak the English well which can be inderstood welll by others.In my opinion, just practise more. Pracrice makes perfect.
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@tankut78 (119)
• Turkey
10 Apr 10
Just watch more bbc and cnn
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• Philippines
17 Apr 10
We shared the sentiment. I can also write English well, but when its my turn to speak I'm always running out of words, I feel nervous and stutter. This is not my only problem, I also can't understand their accent. When I'm watching English Movies, I always put subtitles because I can't understand what the actors were saying. While when I'm reading, I understand well.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
To speak and write English fluently is one thing that I really dream in life. Like you, I can write English but not to speak with. I feel nervous talking with it for fear that I may not say the proper words or the correct sentence and people will just laugh at me. But anyways, I am still thankful that at least, I can write in English and just hoping that in anyways, I will try to practice speaking the language.
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
10 Apr 10
I am not very fluent in spoken English too. Many a times, I find myself unable to utter a complete English sentence when I have to, although I know what I wanted to say in my mind. So, I have been actively listening to English radio stations, especially the news broadcasts, and try to repeat what I heard in my mind. Also, English movies with subtitles are good for me to learn spoken English too. Anyway, I think the key is to listen more, and practice more.
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
and that is my problem, i dont know when and where to practice.. i am a quiet type of person and i dont talk most of the time. even here in the office, we are not that close to talk everything. in our house, no one speak in english, when i wanted to watch english movie, my family dont like beacuse they are watching soap opera or teleserye. hay...
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@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
When? NOW is the time...Where? use the World Wide Web or those people right beside you now...:)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
yes that's right i need to practice now because i really need it. i'm already 29 and i will get older next year... i just hoping that my internet at home will be repair soon so that i can practice more in the web. than kyou.
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
hello there.. you're not alone.. we both have the same feeling when it comes to english . just good in writing but not in verbal.. maybe ur not getting into it. the better way to avoid nervousness is relax. everyone is not not perfect and so they are. i mean the interviewer...hehehe. like me, visaya, sometimes our english is very hard. u just be with urself
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Apr 10
hi nice, english like any other languages if not used, you will loose it too. myLot is a great place to start with. have a dictionary close by or a translation page if you would like. have your responses heard and read, test your reasoning skills, make friends here and earn some income. you'll love it besides improving your english.
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• Philippines
10 Apr 10
yes that's right, i remember when i was young i am not good i English, but its is OK to me because i thought to myself that i am here in the Philippines, my native language is what i need. but now i saw how important to learn it... I cannot practice it everyday because i have no one to talk to. even here in the office, there is only once in a blue moon that some foreigner residents visit me there to ask question with their bill. in our house too. no one speak in English there.
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@ajarvaise (453)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Hi there fellow Pinay. I see that we have the same problem. I also have some difficulty speaking English although I am using it in my job. I am more into written English and I usually stutter and run out of words when speaking English. Sometimes I have to translate my thoughts into Tagalog then translate it in English in my mind. I think enrolling in an English class or Speech Power can enhance your oral skills. You can also try reading out loud and practice the intonations and right pronunciation. You can also read/watch English movies to enhance your vocabulary. I hope this helps. Happy mylotting!
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@roldango (230)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
You just have to be very persistent in your pursuit to learn english fluently. practice talking to people who speak english well and take ask for some of their techniques. Just continue to be inspired to learn.
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15 Nov 11
hi nice! we have the same situation, i am not a bookish person, haven't read a novel during my highschool and elementary days, aside from my studies i watch local tv station only. that is why i regret what i did before. i am a fresh graduate and looking for a job, it is really difficult to find a job, since you will have to face interviews first. that is why, what i had been doing is listen to radio stations that have dj that speaks in english, watch foreign movies with subtitles, read novels and even english books, practice to speak in english at home, write in english, and even think in english... so that what i have been doing, just to improve my communication skills. good luck to both of us.
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@freerr (666)
• China
10 Apr 10
To study a new language especially speaking is not a easy thing, I think is hard to improve it in a short time. You must keep studying and practice to improve it gradually. I also have a not good english, good luck.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
11 Apr 10
I think you may try to always speak in English or when you talk wit someone.. then you also may try to talk in English.. and i think you also concentrate on your pronunciation because it is very very important things.. when you speak..
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I also feel nervous at times but being a teacher doesnt allow me to be nervous when its my turn to talk cause I often do the talking like most of the time. I also had stage frights before but you can always over come it by practice. There are so many ways for you to practice like for example, speaking in English with the members of your family. And dont be afraid to make mistakes when you are saying something in English and always try to be conscious about the things that you will say so you can also correct yourself.
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