When was the last time you got your heart broken????

United Kingdom
April 10, 2010 9:43pm CST
I can't remember when... But I can tell that I had my heart broken many times. Not only in relationships but in different aspects. So when was yours and what happened? And what did you do to mend that broken heart and move on?
4 responses
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
11 Apr 10
The last time my heart was broken was Jan 14th, 2009. Reason I remember that date is because it was 5 days before my birthday. I got an email (we were living in the same house), we had been looking at houses for almost a year, and he stated in his email that when he moved he would be moving alone. The next morning I got up, had coffee, didn't say two words, went up to the attic and started sorting and packing my stuff. We had been together almost 4 years. He informed me a couple of days after the email that he liked me he just didn't love me. Feb 15th I had my truck packed, barely room for me, and on the 16th, I hugged the dog, and left. I drove 6 hours to my oldest daughter's,(in Virginia) cried for about the first hour, and the funny thing is, the tears were for the dog, I still miss her, they weren't for him, I had cried enough over him. I stayed with my daughter and her hubby for 5 months and then headed back to my home state of Texas. I did have to go back to Pa once, for a doctor's release on a injury I had that happened at work. He never knew I was back in the state til days later. I drove up, stayed the night at a hotel and drove back to my daughter's. The only thing is, I don't think there was any actual closure, but that will come........and it will be the last contact I will ever have with him. I loved him beyond words, but he couldn't see that, so be it. His loss.
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 10
WOW! Almost 4 years and The memories!!! And I don't believe that he didn't love you... Yes you need closure, and yes it will come in the right time... And yes it his loss! SMILE! ;)
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• United States
11 Apr 10
We did have some wonderful times, and the memories remain. And unbelievably so, I do miss him at times. But, it just wasn't meant to be. I do stay in touch with his daughter on myspace, we got along well.
• Malaysia
15 Apr 10
Jan 14th, thats my birthday
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
i had my heart broken twice, but i didn't show it. i almost cry my heart out, loving too much a person but hurting you in return. but those things are only memories now, sometimes i remember but most of the time i don't. i guess being hurt is already part of life, for us to be able to handle things well and to know that life is really wonderful after all.=)
• United Kingdom
15 Apr 10
One reason I don't want to fall in love, again, is because I love too much.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
THe last time I got my heart broken was last January 29, 2010. I will never forget that date cause that was the first time I cried since I broke up with my ex. That was the day when I knew that we were never going to be together again. Before that time I still hoped that we would get back together again. On that day she made me feel that she was sorry and wanted to get back with me. She told me that she missed me and still loved me and after all the things she told me she then told me the cruel reality of the things she did. After convincing me that she still loved me she then confessed that a week before that day she slept with the guy whom she cheated with while we were still together. Things would have been okay with me if only she didn't try to convince me that she still loved me. I wouldn't have mind what she did if only she left me alone. anyway that day still haunts me until this day and I am still trying to find ways to move on and get on with my life.
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
hello therealmary! I had my heartbroken a lot of times too... The last time was about a year ago. It was really tragic for me. I learned from my past heartaches and not dwell on it. I got over it as quickly as it came. I had poems written for him just to get over and compiled it.. It's better to put them in good use than keep those in a box...