Your friend is after all your exes...

@zashimi (148)
Philippines
April 11, 2010 4:00am CST
What would you do if a friend of yours has a habit of going after the guys you have dated before? I have a friend who told me she has been out with 4 of the guys I used to date. I am in a relationship now and I'm debating whether I should tell her or not. What do you think?
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@setsuna26 (2410)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Well sometimes we guys dont care that much bout a friend goin for an ex, thats the big difference that we have between girls and guys but i think that will be depending on the situation as well. If i just broke up with someone and then here comes a friend in the picture then i think thats a lil bit offensive for me. In your case i dont think theres nothin wrong with telling her that your in a relationship right now, unless your not confident enough that your boyfriend will stick with you
@zashimi (148)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Yes, I agree most guys would not mind, but most girls have a different mindset about things like that. I just find it very odd that she shamelessly go after the guys I dated. She even personally tells me about it. Is she keeping point?
@setsuna26 (2410)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Hahaha for some reason i feel sorry for this friend of yours. No offense meant for you but the fact that she keeps on chasing those guys that you dated before might mean shes feeling inferior to you.Actually you should be asking yourself how come she dont have any other boyfriends, and why is she chasing after the ones that i dated before.As if shes trying to prove that shes better than you, which much more like an act of stupidity ,because why cant she find her own? and keeps on hoping for the ones that you dumped( supposing).Nothing to worry about those kinds of people just continue what you do and for as long as your not doing anything bad its all good
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
It's really up to you zashimi. You know her more than us. If you think telling her she would do the same thing, then don't. She's been doing this like 4 times it's not a coincidence anymore. once is okay but 4 times? I think she's really into your ex boyfriends...
@zashimi (148)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Thanks. Does it mean my taste in men is something she envies? But then, they didn't work out for me. :
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
There are a lot of possibilities.. *she's thinking that she can get what she wants... *she's comparing herself to you and thinks that she is much better of a girlfriend than you.. Unfortunately it did not work out for the two of them too... *You just have them same taste in men and you just have been there first... I don't really know.. You should ask her maybe she'll give you an honest response.
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
12 Apr 10
Four ex-boyfriends is really very strange to me. I would never go out with a friends ex. I think its really being a bit disrespectful to you. I also think something is mentally not right with her and or she could be jealous of you. She wants to be like you maybe. I can understand maybe one ex that she fell for (not that I would) but she being with 4 of them is really disgusting. Definitely don't tell her about your new relationship at all. By the way a friend like this who needs enemies.