Which do you lie to do, kissing or hugging a person?

Philippines
April 11, 2010 10:21pm CST
Which do you prefer, kissing or hugging? Let me start this, i do prefer in hugging a person because through it, i can feel his whole being inside of me. It feels like i am so secured every time we hug or somebody hugs you. Well, i guess most people do it to their love ones and it really simply implies that it is a general actions to show that you care or love the person. How about you guys, which one you prefer?
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18 responses
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
12 Apr 10
I'm very much a hugging person. I never really liked kissing people, not even my family, for some reason. The only person I really like to kiss is my husband. I love a good hug, though. I always hug my friends and family goodbye. That's how you know when someone and I are good friends, because we'll hug each other either when we see each other or when we're saying goodbye. ^_^
• India
12 Apr 10
Yes, I agree with you. Hugging is for every one you love / care about like family members, relatives, friends etc, while kissing is just for husband/wife. Or may kissing on chiks for children till they are in tender age.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Hi there phyrre, you got it same as me kissing is only for my husband and to the little ones especially kids kissing their chicks.
@jimmysun (401)
• China
13 Apr 10
Different countries have different customs,i like hugging a person rather than kissing, i think to hug someone you met just to show you are in a good manner, and to hug someone shows that you are friendly, and can be friend with....but there is one person i only show kissing instead of hugging whenever we met, that is my wife...cuz i feel KISSING is the best way to show your love to your wife...
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Thanks for the reply, me also the only person i only show hugging and kissing instead is my husband. That's to show how much i value him.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
For me it depends on my mood and on the situation. In some situations it feels more appropriate to hug a person, like when I'm trying to make someone feel calm and relaxed. When it comes to babies I usually like kissing them because they are so cute. When it comes to my partner I like doing both.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Hi there angelajoy, it depends relay me too i love hugging or kissing little ones specially babies, and to my husband also. But hugging is a common thing to let the person to feel that you really cares right? I prefer first hugging.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Apr 10
I definitely prefer hugging. A hug can last as long you want it to. A kiss is too quick. It's over before you know it.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
I agree you on you sender, yes hugging can last as long as you want right and you can really feel her or him.
• China
13 Apr 10
hugging,i like hugging.hugs make me fell insecure.but in my daily life, i don't hug others frequently.and there is few people hugging me.maybe it is because that we are undemonstrative.although we communicate and have fun together,but we do have few chance to hug or kiss others.most of us don't realize this because all of us are like this.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
You have a point too...thanks for the reply.
@b3ginn3r (221)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I prefer hugging too. Hugging is not only for your special someone, it can be given to friends and relatives. I love the warmth that it gives. It really shows how a person shows his/her concern to you.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Yah, hugging makes you feel better. Thanks
@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
1 May 10
I like both I would love to give a hug to everyone who needs it and if they require some kisses then I would oblige if and only if the one who needs it is a she
@kaylachan (56238)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Apr 10
I don't care eaither way. I guess if I had to answer I would probably say both. I like both when its with my partner, but it depends on the person and the relationship I hold with them. Like I said, my partner, I usually do both. never just one or the other.
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Hi mae :) If he or she is a friend, of course I will not kiss him/her haha! But with my loved ones, I prefer hugging them. Like for example, with my boyfriend. He prefers kissing over hugging but every time we see each other, I want him to hug me and I'll hug him in return haha
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Yes of course there are different kinds of kissing, kiss on lips and kiss on chicks and others, but for me i want my husband to hug and then kiss me after because i can feel him.
@common_man (1799)
• India
12 Apr 10
Hi friend, Hugging and kissing both are the ways to express our feeling of love and care to loved ones. Hugging can be used to express love to every one , our friends, relatives, family members, children etc. While kissing is only for special persons in our life, Kissing of cheeks for our own children and lip locking only with spouse. Thats what I do, in reality too.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Yah they are the same to express your feeling to those you love, but what i trying to point out in my discussion is that which you prefer hugging or kissing?
@wll521998 (109)
12 Apr 10
may i say both of them ?i think when you fall in love with her or him, you will prefer to do these two both. i prefer to hugging more than kissing cos hugging can do in anywhre but kiss can not.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Yah, it is awkward to kiss somebody anywhere right? But hugging is just a normal thing specially to your love ones or to your close friends.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
12 Apr 10
to me it's hugging. it is warm, feeling of security, love and loved. it makes both happy.
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
i love doing both. i hug alot and kiss alot. well if its not my family members or not a friend i only do hugs. but for family members i ussually kiss them to know that i really care for them
• Canada
12 Apr 10
wether you hug or kiss usually depends on the type of person you are, if you are really into love, hugging is for love, hugging makes you feel like you and that person are the only people left on the planet and the one you love. If you just want to have ***. you kiss, kissing can also be a quicker version of hugging, personality also depends on how long you kiss, if you are in a hurry, and even though your in a hurry you dont care because you love that person! so i would like the combination of the two :)
@ridwan08 (1183)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 10
personally if i love somebody i prefer to hugging a person,because i can feel about love with hugging person.and according to me,kiss just aternative if i miss so much with my partner.ussuallt i just hugging my partner with love Good Luck
• Japan
12 Apr 10
Kissing i love kissing nothing more wonderful thing then kissing...i am a good kisser so i am not kissing any one without feeling scared they will asked for more be careful to used my lift on kissing cause is very nice moment to have it with the one we love kissing is mean so much then hugging i think:)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 10
i like hugging, with families or with a lover, for me, it just shows more that we care for them, and i also like the feeling of being hugged, so i like hugging people too :)
@Eric1988 (10)
• New Zealand
12 Apr 10
That is all depends. For the people you love ,i prefer kissing while hugging. For families,freinds,just hugging is better.