If your girlfiend ask you to treat her as a baby,what should you do ?

@forlyb (23)
China
April 13, 2010 11:36pm CST
I have a girlfriend,she loves me very much.we are both students studying at university,but differ in major.we are always share our happy and sarrow together ,in anytime and anywhere.we stand on our own feet. but today she ask me to treat her as my baby,I don't know what to do........ In my opinion ,everyone should stand on his own feet.Only in this way,can we face the difficulty bravely.Yes, as a boy ,I know I must bear more pressure,we all call this duty ,that's correct,But I think as a girl,she must learn how to communicate with others,how to live happily and how to solve the problem in a effeient way. I am her boyfriend and I'll take care of her everytime.but i don't want her to lose her ability to live in society
4 responses
• South Korea
15 Apr 10
Think i can understand your girlfriend..lol we girls find this feeling sometimes that we want to be cared like a baby...I dont know but in my part I sometimes get tired of being sweet girlfriend that knows everything... Sometimes its cute to be innocent lol...:)
@forlyb (23)
• China
19 Apr 10
girls should take care of theirselves,we cann't put our future on a person ,we don't need change our characteristic for anybody……
@jascha27 (16)
• United States
15 Apr 10
Well i mean everyone is allowed a breakdown every now and then. I know a friend who is constantly breaking down. Dont get me wrong, he is awesome and many people depend on him but he has these episodes where he has so much stress and all the things in his life that he has control over get out of hand he gets all riled up and in a state that none can save him from. THANK GOD he has not asked me to treat him like a baby but i think everyone wants to break away from reality every once in a while.
@forlyb (23)
• China
19 Apr 10
the realistic is more important than dream
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
I think it is a matter of understanding what she mean of treating her like a baby specially that she is a big girl already. Maybe she just want you to treat with so much love and affection. Or she just want you to be so sweet to her. Not really that you will do everything for her to the extent that you will not have time for your self and to your personal needs. Maybe she is just asking an extra ordinary love. And it does not mean that she will lose her ability to live in the society. Just put it to my self, I am the youngest in the family and all member is of my family treat me like a baby untill now. But I did not lose my ability to live in the society. And as a matter of fact I am living alone now and do everything on my own because of my work. But still I am the baby in the family.
@forlyb (23)
• China
19 Apr 10
no matter how young we are,we have to face the society bravely……
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
If I'm having that type of girl I would have to appear sad and make her realize that I'm worried about having a childish girlfriend. If she's smart then she would notice the frown on my face. Another possibility is that she want you to be more tender with her and the more you care for her the more willing she is to change. Women are just lazy unless given some incentive.
@forlyb (23)
• China
19 Apr 10
that's correct,everyone should have their own ability to live in society