People who only dissapoint you!

@saphrina (31740)
South Africa
April 15, 2010 12:16pm CST
Why is it that everytime you think you have this good friend or even someone you are close to dissapoint you so much? Why do we even bother? I think that from now on, i am not going to make any new friends and those i have, just tough luck for them.
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@primeaque86 (7968)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
My B... I am sorry for the absence, now I am worried with this post, I know you are angry... please calm down angel...
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
I am calm, prime. This discussion is about a personal friend. No one here. So, relax, would you.
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• Philippines
16 Apr 10
ok, thanks my B... at least I know....
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
Next time, ask. Men and their immaginations. That will get you into trouble, one day.
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@dawnald (84126)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
Maybe it's disappointing when a friend turns out not to be the kind of friend you are looking for, but if you don't try and make new friends, you might miss out on missing somebody really terrific.
@dawnald (84126)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
oops "meeting somebody really terrific"...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
Thanx sweetie, but i think i had. How are you? TATA.
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@dawnald (84126)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
Hanging in there...
@Gany15k (1674)
• India
15 Apr 10
Disappointing doesn't really mean hurting..from their point of view it may be right..If I'm fighting with my friend then it really doesn't mean that I'm hating him..its just small problem..I know it hurts..but I never lose those relationships...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
Gany, sweetie. If you have a friend with a problem and you helped him and he swore never ever to make the same mistake again. Do you think he will keep his promise or will he dissapoint you? Answer that for me please.
@Gany15k (1674)
• India
15 Apr 10
If he did that again then I will slap him ...I don't mind..then i won't talk to him..but when he comes and says sorry again I apologize then I will accept it for sure...its human nature to do mistakes..it takes 2 or 3 times to correct or recognize the effect of that...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
Sweetie, then you are a much better persn than i will ever be. Addiction is nothing to play with and that for me is unforgiving. Thanx. TATA.
• Malaysia
14 May 10
hey sweety, everything cooled down and you're accepting new friends already?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
14 May 10
Yip, i have to make sure that i have a lot of friends who surround me. That makes me happy. Thanx. TATA.
• Malaysia
14 May 10
so can i be your fwen too... oh yeah...you accepted me already hehe..
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
14 May 10
Are you sure of it??
@vandana7 (57183)
• India
15 Apr 10
Where did I go wrong sweetie? :) You should spell your expectations as and when they come up. Otherwise you may set yourself up for this disapointment. :) Any such expectations should also be reasonable I suppose. :)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
Vandana, i can only be so reasonable in life. And i can only help and take so much in life. But, thanx for dropping by. Did you jump on my BB's bladder last night or not?
@vandana7 (57183)
• India
15 Apr 10
No - been a bit busy actually. Dont worry, I will trouble him. But he is such a sweet kid saphrina. I feel bad teasing him. Especially since he is genuinely trying to transform - in so far as I am concerned. :)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
Whats the problem? If he wants to transform, let him. And sweetie, he is definately not a kid anymore. Give, what is he up too now?
• China
16 Apr 10
Well, it seem s I am lukier than you.I don't found there such a people around me.As to me,I am not so confident to myself,so if someone always dissapoint me,I would be very hopeless maybe.So if I meet this kind of people in the future I will surely get away from them.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
Thats good sweetie and please remember to keep your distance. That helps a lot. TATA.
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• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I know now my B... I know who was implied....
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
Thanx sweetie, you just know when to pop in.
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@tomcat23 (623)
• Old Forge, Pennsylvania
15 Apr 10
I truly don't think its a matter of making friends, its a matter of being a friend that gets you friends. There is a great deal of networking online, and just because someone invites you to join their network, it doesn't mean they are a friend. The friendship begins when they pay attention to you, your feelings, your desires, your likes and dislikes. It begins when they take the time to get to know you and in turn let you get to know them. Lets face facts, the internet has indeed opened up new horizons for everyone who uses it. It gives us the opportunity to meet people who otherwise were unknown to us.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
I agree, but what to do if it is friend you have known for almost six years?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
And that is my point exactly. I helped once and will not do it again. So, enemies. it will definately be. Thanx.
@hexeduser22 (5856)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through all this I hope by now you are okay. I'm sorry that I couldn't lend a hand or a shoulder at the right moment. I really hope by now you are okay. I wish I could give you hug right now just to make you feel that you got a friend in me
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
13 May 10
Thank you sweetie. I know i could have used your shoulder. You are so darn nice. TATA.
@alth124 (16)
1 May 10
I think there will also be people how would disappoint us in one way or another. What I have learnt over the years is to expect anything form anyone. That way you would be disappoint when there do something to you.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
1 May 10
Now that is a very good lesson. Always expect to be dissapointed by someone in your life. Nasty, but true. Thanx, sweetie. TATA.
@hora_fugit (5435)
• India
17 Apr 10
Hmm.. seems I requested you at right time, so that I could be one. I don't know why we care, but we do. That's why I'm sulking these days a lot... Wish you all the best. And well, I notice some "men.." expressions a lot recently!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
Ok, why are we sulking again?? We always have to care, that is what makes us good people. Now stop sulking and tell me whats wrong. TATA.
@Opal26 (17694)
• United States
16 Apr 10
Hey saphrina! Now calm down for a minute! I know that people always seem to disappoint us in our lives, but that is just how life is and the sooner you get used to it the better off you will be! Life sucks and so do most of the people we deal with! I get the feeling that someone you were "friend's" with disappointed you! Well, that is the way things go in this world and you just have to be more careful about who you trust and who you take as a "friend"! Friends come and go and it is very rare that you will find a "true friend" that will stay and be a "real friend" that you can truly trust and that won't disappoint you! Just keep an open mind and open heart and be careful who you pick and take in to your confidence!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 Apr 10
Thanx sweetie. Yes, i just never learn. But the mind is open and the heart closed. That is a very potent combination, and it works wonders. TATA.
@cloud31 (5811)
15 Apr 10
Hope I'm not the cause of your disappointments,and if I ever did, I'm sorry about it,the only thing I'm getting close to you is just purely and mainly friendship if sometimes I did something that could me you disappointed just because I cannot be that perfect but I can be better but for sure I can't be the best!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
IJ, why would you be the cause of my disappointment? It is not someone here. And you are just perfect as you are. Thanx. TATA.
@busybee10 (3192)
• India
15 Apr 10
We are all passing very bad days to tell you frankly. Days have become so critical that we cannot believe any one these days. Even some friends are very cunning only because of selfishness and to gain favor from us. Slowly I am also keeping away from friends to avoid lot of negativity in them.Not only that because of no reason we invite quarrel by helping in giving money. Enough of my experience with these people.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
15 Apr 10
And that is the worst of it all. Friends need to be there. No matter what. But so we learn each and every day. Thanx. TATA.