Bad comment or opinion of others, how do you take?

@chavezrmc (1545)
Philippines
April 17, 2010 6:46pm CST
We can't avoid that people are doing comments to us and sometimes it is hurting, how do you deal with it?
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8 responses
• Malaysia
17 Apr 10
I have faced this situation many times. Sometime it hurts. However if someone raise some critics, there can be some truth in it. Look deep down in ourself and analyse the critics. If the critics are for the better why not take it. Afterall everyday we try to be the betterman. So think positively, learn from it and improve.
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@tjen_anni (319)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 10
Well...when I got hurt by people's opinions, I got depressed. Sometimes it takes me for days to cope it. Then I realized, I need those persons to have a quality of life. Actually it is better to have a bad comment in front of us then a good but implicit one.
• Malaysia
18 Apr 10
agree !!
• Indonesia
18 Apr 10
Thank you borneodew...:D
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
18 Apr 10
easy what they think of me dont matter anyways. we all have butt holes, and they are opinions. but only God can judge me for real.
• Malaysia
18 Apr 10
hie chavezrmc, there will be good and bad comments on us. the reason is we are not perfect and neither are they. when the comment is constructive, we must try to assess ourselves and make self improvement. in this way, we improve ourselves and be a better person. its not easy to change and it takes alot of effort and pain. the importan thing is that we want to change to better ourselves and not change ourselves to make another happy. lasting changes come from within yourself. i know it hurts when we receive adverse comments as we are human and of the flesh. once we understand we change ourselves for the better, then the transision or transformation will be easier and smoother. when we receive praise, we are happy. if the person continually say bad thing out of envy etc , then just move away from him / her. pray for God's mercy to help you.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
Anyone can be hurtfull. If someone start that with me, i am even more mean and spitefull. Just when i think the poor soul are warmed up, i will ignore him or her. As easy as that. TATA.
@ajrox1810 (992)
• India
18 Apr 10
It does hurts sometimes when people comment rudely, and to know that their opinion doesn't match with ours. But I take it as a sport. Instead of grudging over it, I start debating with that guy, in case I am right. On the other hand, if the other party is right, then I simply shook up and ask for apology. Similarly in comments, when I get bad but true comments, I agree with them. Regards, AJ-Rox
@hora_fugit (5435)
• India
18 Apr 10
Once I was praised for being nice to such people. But now I'm always in foul mood so no, they can't escape commenting just anything about me or others for that matter. I'll pacify once it gets too long, but till then And if the comments hold water, I get defensive. I'll not argue much, rather try to do away with whatever negative thing was commented on.
@qamarep (4453)
• Pakistan
18 Apr 10
when ever this happens i just vote them negative