What are the things that can threaten a family... how do you protect it.
19 Apr 10
the first thing that comes to mind is infidelity. i'd say the one cheated on has the bigger stick and has it in her or his hands the fate of the family when it comes to calling it quits. a fling is only a fling (hard to hear) to somebody who cannot find a person that one can truly say one's own. it is but plain human nature to survive and this includes finding one to be with for the rest of one's life. inability to do so means something is wrong. so consider it long and hard before one calls it quits. peace . seldom do married men leave their wives. seldom do they deny they have a wife. most of them deny they have mistresses. so, these mistresses aren't worth the dignity of being recognized.... again, peace . just my opinion.
18 Apr 10
Hi chavezrmc Sad to say. I've seen how a gossip nearly break a family up. We can't just accept what others have said without checking the legitimacy of the story, whatever their motives are. The best thing is to hear both sides of the story and hear them from the horses' mouth.