What do you feel if you were deceive again?

@nehmer (609)
Philippines
April 18, 2010 7:16am CST
I have been a victim by my friend. I want to get revenge but i can't because my friend always have an upper hand. I don't know what to believe anymore. I feel very week because the way my friend deceive me is like killing me. What would you feel if you were deceive by someone you considered to be your friend or just anybody else like your family etc... etc...
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7 responses
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
what would i feel if i were deceived again? of course, i will feel like the whole world crashes on me for being not so careful once again that people easily deceived me...
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@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Yes your right im sick of what they are doing to me now they are recruiting more to kill me.. I don't know why there are people like them. =(
@yresh12 (3219)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
When your deceived over and over again, He's not to be called a friend anymore. that's what I think.What about you will you allow that person to deceive you once more. You can just put a line between the two of you.YOu can be friends just don't trust to much
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
i can't find to rest my body when i cannot get my revenge. maybe ill hang out more and destroy their lives hehehe until i find out there weakness.
@yresh12 (3219)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Don't be like that. You'll just get more problems if you do. I think the best way for you to do is just chillax and have fun. Don't think about it.
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@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
what should i do then? should i wait for their next attack or just let them do their scheme? please help me...
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Aww. I would feel very very stupid if I would be deceived again. I should have learned in the first place. That's how I would feel.
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
I guess i will never learn from my mistake.. there a bunch of liars in this world and i hate to admit it..
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
You bet. Anyways, it's their conscience. Atleast you were just trying to be nice.
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@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
What should i do. do i evade them or just fight them back?. as a professional im not anymore concerned with this kind of things but my dignity here is at stake..
@megamatt (14326)
• United States
19 Apr 10
Deception is a thing that is tough to get through. Especially when it is someone that you thought to be a friend and thought that you could trust beyond all else. That can hurt a lot, as these people can seem to sting the absolute most. Thankfully this is something that I have only gone though once or twice. Unfortunately, it has happened. I feel that being deceived once is bad enough and that is a warning that I should really distance myself from that person. And in my experiences, that is what I do. Once my trust is broken, it is hard to get it back. Especially if it is a breach where I consider that it was someone deceiving me. I start to wonder if this person was really my friend or if they were just using me. Family would be worse in many ways. Still being deceived regardless of who the person is, yeah, that can hurt a lot. I certainly will not trust that person ever again and will do whatever I can to distance myself. Unless they prove that they truly regret their mistake and that is something that will only happen over time. I doubt that if they truly deceived me, they would truly feel bad so it is just best if we are
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
hello megamatt thanks you for sharing your story to me and was thinking that if i ever stay away from this people maybe they will think that im trying to do something to them. and they are my friends but they are deceiving me and i know it.. i don't know why are they doing it to me maybe im fun to be deceived. =(
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
deceive again? well as you said he is a friend of yours but I do not feel that he is a true friend. how can a true friend do such things? at first i know it is sad and it hurts to accept that a friend deceive you, but in later time you will realize you are not the one he deceive but himself. and lesson learned you will not trust again, I mean easy to trust other people. It is not because somebody is nice and you will trust them. Trust is gain and it takes time to trust a person. I know now you will avoid person like him.
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Two people are involve here and they are recruiting more in their scheme. I can't seem to avoid them.. if i avoid them they will know that im up to something.. i have to find their weakness. =( but its hard
@caliya (1175)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
like what they say, shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice. if you can just stay away from that person. a true friend will not put you in such situation. just hang out with those people who can be trusted.
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
I like your quote. You know caliya i want to stay away from them but they want to kill me. so ill give them a fight and inorder to do that i have to be close as possible to them and study there weakness if there is.. hope i find it soon. i really want revenge
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Imagine what Christ felt when he was betrayed by one of his apostles and everyone left him to be crucified just as a fulfillment of what was prophesied about him (sorry for being religious). Anyway, it would be very painful. I think you should reconsider who to be friend with. With regards to revenge, as Shakespeare wrote, "revenge is a dish best served cold." However, if you do get your revenge what's next? Though I hate to say this, let the Fates deal with your friend even though they move ever so slow fate will catch up with him.
@nehmer (609)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
I don't think i could forgive them anymore visijay because i already given them a chance and they blew it. now i want revenge. i want them to feel the pain i suffer,,