How to be good friend with a very shy person?

China
April 20, 2010 1:11am CST
In our daily life ,we often meet some people who is very shy.But in most cases ,many of them are very kind , i want to be friend with them.So i want to know how to be good friend with a very shy person?
1 response
• South Korea
20 Apr 10
you know what i hope i will have a chance to be your friends lol... coz i am really a SHY PERSON..EVEN THOUGH I WANNA BE FRIENDS with others..somehow i feel so shy to approach them.. so its like i was just hanging out with them but im not speaking..lol although im happy...you know its just that im not a talker.. but if somebody will tryto talk to me.. of course im trying to reach out with them... and im thankfull that somebody started a taLK..so maybe thats what it takes you can just start the talk and let them feel that you wanna hear something from them..goodluck..:)
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 10
we have similarity in common. I was a shy person who never talk to anybody whom i don't know yet. But when i have befriend with someone it is more easy to speak out our mind. Maybe this is because the basic character of melancholic person and i guess you are melancholic person too. But by the time changes, i can decrease my lack and developing the ability to speak, by trying to start conversation with other people, and it works, i am now not too silent as before. To befriend with a shy person is by taking the right approach so that he or she will not feel inconvenient.