lov ur parents??
November 16, 2006 6:51am CST
tere r certain tings of my parents tat i really dont like..tere kindo tinkin , tere attitude 2 life, 2oter people n at times 2 me even..n at times i feel disgusted wit tem.. may b due 2 lack of understandig n i feel i ud leave tem as soon as i start earnin.. but suddenly i remember d fact tat TEY LOV ME n no denyin 2 tis fact.so its a really confusin sit . wat 2 do
• United States
17 Nov 06
Don't worry, there are lots of people who disagree with their parents about pretty much everything. People always say you can't pick your family, which is true, so the best thing to do is try to find ways to make things easier, especially if you live with them. I saw that you are 20 years old. I think it's pretty common for people your age to disagree with their parents a lot. You are a young adult, trying to find yourself and realize what you believe in. This is your time to explore. A lot of parents have a hard time watching a 20 year old do this because they think they should be able to tell you about the world and life, and you should just accept it. They have a hard time waching their kids make mistakes and learn lessons the hard way. Because of this they get irritated. This may or may not be the case with you. I'm not sure. I guess the best advice I can give you is to remember that they do love you and they only want whats best for you. Even if they don't really know what that is. Things will probably get better in time but just remember that you are not your parents. You will not always agree or see eye to eye. It doesn't make anyone right or wrong, it just makes you who you are.