facebook friends: those who defriend you or block you from viewing profile

United States
April 23, 2010 2:25am CST
Hello there! I hope all you MyLotters are okay. Anyway, my situation is well recently there's been people both that i know and don't know that add me on facebook. I did have 983 or 984 friends. Now it came up to 981 friends. The one who recently friend requested me, I accepted it even if i didn't know him but i limited my profile or made him not view certain things on my profile after i accepted him as a friend, but i found out he deleted me using those facebook defriender apps. has that ever happened to you? Another one is 2 of the people that i've actually met and know, have just recently deleted me since i found on on facebook defriender whatever it is. And they have been on my friends list for quite awhile. However, one of them is a family friend who is related to my cousin on the other side. When I was logging on facebook, and that i reading status updates, i responded a post that doesn't relate to me and that she was responding to this other person who is also on my friend's list. however, i didn't meant to intervene on a convo since you can see status and news feed updates of other people. After a few seconds later, I log back in facebook and now she's gone from the news feed. I just was using a facebook defriend checker and found out she deleted me. And then when i went to message her on facebook by personal message, i didn't ask why she deleted me but instead I just said "hey, hello, what's up? , long time no see." Then after that i logged out of facebook and came back to log in facebook at late night and found out that her profile isn't viewable anymore. then the unfriender would say she deleted her profile / deleted account. But if i went to log in to another account and find her through another person, she's still on facebook. has that ever happened to you? I know its petty thing to worry about friends and people deleting me on facebook, sometimes i just feel sad or upset on certain people whom i want to keep friends on a facebook. I just thought that the cause of her blocking and deleting me was because of that post or reply even if the convo was between them (wall to wall). but i wasn't annoying or anything. Also i did recently changed profile pics. I dunno but everytime i know someone that i'm familiar with and they intentionally delete or get rid of me, i get all bummed out. I feel like down in the dumps even if its just a petty thing and people i would share this feeling would say its just a facebook. I know, its just a facebook. I'm trying to smile eventhough this family friend person just deleted me recently. What would you feel if you know someone or a friend you've known and then haven't bugged or post annoying message just suddenly to delete you for no reason? How do you deal with that? What are your inputs on this? just curious. Aside from that there's been other facebook thing that has been making me sad...lol.. i will post another topic on that..
2 responses
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
i will feel really bad and quesrion myself "what have i done wrong?".. but i hope it will not happen to me in the future..i am safe because i know all my friends in my facebook account are my long-known friends... :-)
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
Hi my fellow mylotter, it also happen to me, while I was searching for my lover's friend to sent a gift I couldn't find him. I don't know if he intentionally delete it or not or if I accidentally delete him on my friends list. He's a good friend of him and I don't see any reason why he will delete me although we are not close but I'm sure he pretty like me. On the other hand, I delete some of my friends and acquaintances who doesn't even care to respond on my message. I don't have time in those kind of person, they just make me sick so why staying friends with them. In your case there are few possible reasons why they deleted you, first, may be technical error by facebook. Second, you maybe accidentally deleted your friend or your friend accidentally hit the delete button. and the last maybe they are tired of having many friend, i don't know, that was just my speculation. I hope it helps you in thinking reasons why your friend deleted you.