Responses are rare now?

@yugasini (12836)
Anantapur, India
April 24, 2010 10:55pm CST
hi mylot friends, I am astonishing that in previous days,i am getting responses immediately with in 5 minutes after the discussion is appearing in mylot,i am finding since one week,i am getting responses rarely,i too also not show interest to get more response,it is also hard to give reply to all responses,i am thinking that i am loosing friends in mylot or i am not posting discussions which are not important etc etc,today i have posted a discussion before 7 am,to my surprise i have not received a single response till now?what about you?
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15 responses
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
25 Apr 10
Hi yugasini,LOL you are worrying unnecessarily about loosing friends.i think everyone is tired with the heat and have become sluggish thats all ...I think one can never be sure what kind of discussions fetch more responses and which ones dont...I have had some discussions which according to me were good but members dint seem to think so or it got overlapped by other dicsussions...
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi kiran, thanks for the reponse,for this discussion i have recieved eleven responses,for that discussion zero response till now,what to do,so i am leaving worry about it,let it happen itself,i have posted a discussions about "Issuu" have you know about this site ,this is the discussion which ihave posted and not received any response till now,if you know about it let me know the details,have a nice day
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
26 Apr 10
Hi yugasini, i have never heard of that site so far...have a nice day
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
25 Apr 10
Hi there my friend! Please don't be disappointed just because one discussion did not receive a response. You are not losing your friends here. Some of us are just too busy to be everywhere. Some are not posting at all. I know some are in ill-health and some have exams coming up. There are many new users here who think that they should start many discussions in order to earn and only later do they realise that they were mistaken. Things will get back to normal and then maybe it eill be your turn to be offline and we will be asking you the same question
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
25 Apr 10
Many do not understand that it is not enough just post a topic if they wish to earn and you can spend your time responding and commenting elsewhere. I have not started even one at all this month.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi mysdianait, thanks for the response,i am finding less responses in these days from my mylot friends,i do not know the reason,for this discussion i have ten responses,but i have not got a single response for that discussion,every body here are posting discussions for earning money only,i too is doing the same,have a nice day
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
I always check on the discussions tab and check if there are any responses. I found out that the email notification for responses seems to have a bug, and I don't really mind. The notifications from Mylot are just adding to my junk mail, so I don't mind the notifications.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
26 Apr 10
hi anne25penn, thanks for the participation in this discussion,daily when ever possible i am checking mylot responses,either in the yahoomail and directly mylot site,most of the time i get minimum responses,see this time i got more than 16 responses to this discussion,but none to that discussion,have a ncie day
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
25 Apr 10
I think it really just depends on how many people are interested in the topic. It is really hard to come up with a discussion that has as many as 100 responses, or at least close to it. However, once in a blue moon, I do get lucky and have a discussion that has that many responses. Otherwise, usually they get a few, 3, maybe 5. Then again, I still start discussions that get no responses at all. I also believe that timing is part of it. You could start a discussion at the same time as someone else, and yours may just end up by the way side. Or you could start a discussion at the time when most other people are also starting a discussion or doing something else. I am not sure what the odds are of getting a response, or what the odds are of getting several responses....but it would be interesting to know about the odds. Good luck to you in getting a lot of responses in your future discussions. I hope that everything works out well for you!
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
26 Apr 10
hi kykidd, thanks for the response,regularly i am getting responses for my discussion in between 3 to 5,that is enough for me some time i may get more responses,for this discussion i received more than 12 responses,but rarely my discussion will get zero responses,so i think that has happen,have a nice day
@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Apr 10
I am very behind on responding. Some discussions, I don't respond to because they don't interest me. If you ever have a discussion that has NO responses at all, feel free to send me a PM with the link and I will give it a response even if it's a topic I'm not fond of!
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
27 Apr 10
hi dawnald, thanks for the response,you are very kind enough to me,i too like persons like you,helping others will gain smile from the others,thanks for the offer,whenever i does not reiceve any response to any one of my discussion i will send the link to you,i does not know how to create a link for the discussion,have a nice day
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• United States
26 Apr 10
Truthfully I believe that responses come in streaks, I know it did that last summer when I use to have my old account. I would see some days full of responses and other days with very few responses. Don't worry I am sure you will see that people will pick up after the weekend.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
26 Apr 10
hi pmhuntress, thanks for the participation in this discussion,i am not worrying about the responses,some times may come some times may not come,that is according to the stuff of the discussion responses will come,some time simple discussions will get more and a worth discussion may not even get one ,that the mentality of the people of the world,have a nice day
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Apr 10
yugasini I am thinking of several things that may account for few responses to a discussion posted before 7 am , and that one thing is a lot of mylotters early in the morning are up and out the door to their jobs leaving people like me who are retired to post on early morning discussions. do not give up, just keep also posting to others discussions so you can get the name yugasini out in public view and people will say oh that yugasini made some really good responses to my discussions, I must look up her discussions and respond also. Also this little discussion here should rouse us and get us responding to you also and maybe make a few friends for yourself. good luck and happy mylotting.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
26 Apr 10
hi hately, thanks for the participation in this discussion,i am not worrying about the resposnes,if some thing new or having stuff,that must get more responses,i have seen several times ,i got several responses from you also,once in blue moon ,we wont get any response for our discussion,have a nice day
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
25 Apr 10
Well that's pretty weird because since I've became a member here at mylot I've watched the population virtually double. But just because we are getting more members doesn't mean that they are all being active. It's not really all about responses though. As long as you continue to write good responses or discussions with good lenghty content you should see your earnings benefit greatly from it.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi jambi, thanks for the response,now i got a clue that why people are writing more content in mylot,so that is the secret,to increase the words we have add some thing extra to the content,so i am not posting long content discussion,my discussion will be shortly,have a nice day
@vandana7 (98718)
• India
25 Apr 10
Hi yugasini, that is not true. :) Some of us have been busy. :) So even though we do come, we kind of add response here or there, and leave rather than look through every discussion. :) Sorry about not having responded to your earlier discussions. I will search for them, and check whether I do have any opinion on them to offer. :) You too have a nice day. :)
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi vandana madam, thanks for the response,this time i have received 8 responses to this discussion,but ihave not received any response to that discussion till now,i have 5 to 8 close friends in mylot,i am getting response from these close friends,immediately after my discussion was appearing on mylot,this time one is on bed,two friends from Bangalore are out of mylot since from January to latest 15 days,you are also one of my close frind,now i have recieved the response,still i have to receive some responses from those members at least,have a nice day
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
It depends on the discussions that you start. Some just won't respond to discussions that is more likely to be deleted or a topic that's hard to understand. You have to make it understandable and clear in order for others to respond to it.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi frontvisions, thanks for the response,every time i am getting minimum of 3 to4 responses for each and every discussion of me,this time i have not received single one till now,the discussion was not open by any mylot friend till now,let me it will be zero response discussion or regular discussion,have a nice day
@umadper (947)
• India
25 Apr 10
hi,friend,it's not the problem from your side or not that you are loosing friends...i think those who used to give responses immediately in the previous times they might be busy or not attending mylot regularly..or lastly your discussion may not attract the members...one thing is sure your friends are always with you,don't think other side...all the best and have a nice day... As per my observation few members who gave responses regularly to YOU ,they are not active since 10 days...like Buchi..sreekala..vandana..vatsala..am i right?
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi umadper, thanks for the response,you are observing mylot keenly and you are observing mine and my friends discussions and responses also,you have mention their names in mylot also,person like will be more important to me/us,why do not join to our group,i am inviting you to our friends list,if you have interest with us?have a nice day
@cloud31 (5809)
25 Apr 10
Hello friend, Its not your losing friend we are still here just sometimes the timing maybe doesn't match some of your friends time zone and they were not around that time you posted a topic.We are always here of course and sometimes maybe you cannot get some responses from friends because the topic doesn't suit their expertise. We are always here for you!
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi cloud, thanks for the response,thanks for the kindness of you,may be you are correct,my topic was not interest to some of mylot members and some does not seen my discussion,some may far away with the net,mostly each and every discussion i get minimum one response at least,still i have not received any response to that discussion,have a nice day
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
Hi yugasini, Maybe its the about the topic you are posted in your discussion. For me it is better to post good discussion that can get the interest of fellow mylotters. A discussion that every mylotters can be interested to response. So try to think that kind of discussions. Goodluck friend and happy mylotting.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi latexfreak, thanks for the response,you re misunderstanding mylot friends,when they are more responsive and when they are less responsive no body can tell,this discussion i have received 7 responses ,that discussion i have even get one till now,have a nice day
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
I haven't started any discussion today but I am doing is do respond with discussion. So far I can't relate with your dilema. Maybe mylotters are out for something. It's Sunday here, some maybe out for church or out for malling.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
adeena, thanks for the response,but ihave not received any response for that discussion,this discussion i have received seven responses till now,i think people are celebrating their vacations in India an abroad,or my discussion was not create any interest in mylot friends,have a nice day
@burrito88 (2774)
• United States
25 Apr 10
Well a least I am responding. I don't post in many discussions, only in one's hat I find interesting or where I think I can contribute something. I may not be contributing much but at least I found your post interesting enough to respond to and you can at least know that one person knows you are there.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Apr 10
hi burrito, thanks for the first response,i have got 9 responses to this discussion,but i have not get any response to that discussion till now,the topic which i have posted is new one to every body,if some body have posted that discussion,i am the first person to give reply,because i will see what is new thing in that discussion,have nice day